Men don't stand a chance in court nowadays.
My advise from experience is create a new name for yourself. Liquidate everything you can without her noticing you. Then at the last minute liquidate everything else and assuming you have adequate ID and stuff for your new name, make a new account in another state to hide most of your cash in and just disappear. Get a greyhound 30-day anywhere pass and put some miles between you and her. NEVER LOOK BACK. If you worry bout her or feel angry, all will...