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Explains why you end up with unavailable partners, and gives advice on breaking the pattern.
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Why Are You Alone and Angry Even Though People do What You Ask?

Posted 09-07-2009 at 02:09 PM by Doctor Jeanette (Unavailable Partner Fatigue!)
Updated 09-07-2009 at 06:58 PM by 2goldens
An uneasy feeling shatters Vivian’s peace
Labor day weekend! Vivian was alone. Peace and quiet, rest and recreation. She didn’t have to put on her face and pretend to be perfect! What a relief to put that burden down just for a day or two.

After a lazy morning Vivian ate a delicious lunch and read her novel, napping every so often. Bliss! Yet there was an odd sensation in the pit of her stomach. She was getting some acid reflux and there was an uneasy feeling in her bones. A...
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My Partner Never Supports Me!

Posted 05-19-2009 at 01:38 PM by Doctor Jeanette (Unavailable Partner Fatigue!)
Sonia Resents Having To Look For A Job.
The thought of having to look for another job made Sonia angry and depressed. Writing new resumes, interviewing, posting ads for jobs made her feel alone and uncared for.

Sharing their day with each other, Sonia told Rick about her fears. What if she couldn't get a decent paying job? What if she had to take a position she hated?

" I know it's tough for you to start again. I hear how mad you are that you have to get back...
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Why Aren't You Hearing About Your Partner's Availability?

Posted 04-22-2009 at 07:54 PM by Doctor Jeanette (Unavailable Partner Fatigue!)
The sound of the key opening the apartment door made Justin’s mouth water with anticipation for the smile of joy on his wife’s face. He could almost feel the pressure of her body, the tickle of her hair and the beat of her heart as she threw her arms around him. He had been looking forward to this welcome home hug for days. What he got made him sick to his stomach.

“Hi!” Norma said, briefly looking his way, before she continued working on the computer.

“That’s...
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Why Would You Suffer In Silence?

Posted 02-19-2009 at 01:12 PM by Doctor Jeanette (Unavailable Partner Fatigue!)
It's Not That Bad
Mindy could feel her anxiety rising. Things were getting on top of her. Her boss was in a bad mood making life at work very unpleasant. Her sister was refusing to talk to her about their mother's deteriorating health. She herself was having more frequent headaches, mini panic attacks and losing sleep. But it made her feel strong to think she could handle it herself. She never confided in her partner.

It's Getting Worse- But Mindy Tolerates It
Restless...
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Does What You Want Come Too Late?

Posted 02-03-2009 at 11:57 AM by Doctor Jeanette (Unavailable Partner Fatigue!)
Updated 02-12-2009 at 01:46 PM by Doctor Jeanette
Marcus was starving for affection and physical contact. His partner Angelina had not been in the mood for physical intimacy since she had the baby.

Patience is Running Out
They had talked about it, and Marcus had agreed to be patient. Now his patience was running out. It had been almost seven months since they had made out with each other.

Making All The Compromises
Marcus felt he had to make all the concessions and initiate all the compromises at his business...
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