i live in new jersey, and have been renting an apartment for close to 4 years. In the 4 years I have lived here, my landlady has gotten increasingly nosey(mostly since her husband has died.)

Coincidently, our landlady is also our neighbor. She does not(very often) try to come inside our apartment..

she does go through our garbage, however. We pay our own garbage- but she's always commenting on how much, or little garbage we have. she also complains if we leave our own...