I'm so tired of being told that I really wasn't gay. I have read on the forum and been told in RL that I was really bi-sexual and not gay. My comeback is that until you have lived in my skin you cannot tell me what I was thinking for feeling.

And whether it's bi-sexual or homosexual it is still having gay sex. Homosexual sex.

I have been asked by a few people why I stepped away from my blog for so long. I've been going through some serious life issues with my family...

I believe it’s important that I share my purpose for creating and maintaining this blog. My purpose is to speak about homosexuality and the church. So much exists in our media today about how it's okay to be gay, and that it's okay to be gay and a Christian. I for one do not agree with that stance and want to reach out to people who are hurting and wondering who they are. There are many men sitting in the church pews who deal with these feelings. I was one of them and I had no one to turn to; no...

I received a question from someone after reading my first blog post. The question was:
What do you think drew you to men?


This is a question that comes up quite a bit for anyone who has struggled with gender identity. I was raised in a very large family in America’s heartland—Indiana (thus my moniker, Hoosier). My father, uncles and grandfathers were into stereotypical guy things—fishing, hunting, cars and sports. Even at an early age of 4 or 5 I thought worms were slimy...

Many years ago I began a search for my sexual identity. Who was I? I had figured out who I was spiritually, but still confused about my sexual identity. While I had feelings and desires for the same sex, I wasn’t sure how that belief fit in alignment with my faith.

My Search Begins
I ran the gamut when it came to trying out religions. I was raised Catholic, but left the church when I was 21. I was at a crossroads spiritually. I found myself searching for who I was—not who my...