Culture of communication and tools available

I'm a chatter and blogger searching for online and offline contacts for friendship, dating and communication with educated people who are able to read, write and talk English using mobiles, PCs or other web tools. Spamming is a phenomenon taking your time and attention and lots of users would be certainly glad to get rid of it completely. Our emotions and expectations are values everyone should appreciate and treat with care and we're all under the constant siege of unwanted information and numerous intruders subverting our trust and confidence to unfamiliar users by disguised reids of different fake messages and requests. The culture of our informational and emotional exchange is abused and we feel impulses of negative energy which strikes our minds and causes the sense of frustration and disappointment. I suppose to develop some defensive steps and strategical moves which would rise our cultural level of communication in this direction. Do you have any experience to share or original ideas to eliminate such a negative influence like that?