teenage help
Posted 11-12-2008 at 02:10 PM by Charity
I have two out of control teenage girls. I am married and he has finally decided to move on as they are way out of control. I have tried putting my foot down and even put them on probation but that does not even seem to matter to them. They are only worried about themselves and it is really getting to me. They are at the age to where they can decide where they want to live at but not sure if that is the right decision to make or not?
I do love them but honestly cant really deal with their attitudes or disrespect anymore.
Somebody please help me!!
I do love them but honestly cant really deal with their attitudes or disrespect anymore.
Somebody please help me!!
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Please post in the Parents Forum for better results and more feedback.Posted 11-12-2008 at 04:53 PM by 2goldens
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Posted 11-12-2008 at 07:57 PM by snowpeas123
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I cant really comment to much, what is it that there out of contol about? do they want freedom? Is ur husband there father? and if he is why isnt he standing together with you? Theres lots of reasons why children are out of control. Depending on there age it could be hormones and they will get through it we as parents have to try our hardest to be patient or is there something there needing...do they need to feel that there being heard. I mean i just need to know info maybe i can give u better advice ..i raise lots of kids i have two of my own but raised many other children write back. but if they are going through hormones then what i can say is to try to be patient be Qick to lishen, Slow to Speck and Slow to get angry. Sometimes when there venting ...let them ..remember u dont alway have to respond dont feel that u have to ..sometimes they just need to vent ...study them see if maybe something else is going on with them that there not quit saying and when u do speck ..speck in a low voice no matter how loud they get let them vent and when everything has died down go into there room set next to them and first start off with honey i love u! and i not sure want to do u could speck to both of them if there both there and calm and be honest tell them that ur there mother and u love them with all ur heart and u dont always have all the answers and sometimes u just plan dont know what to do cause kids dont come with a book u can learn from and tell them u probably havent made all the right choices for them and u still might make some mistakes along the way ...but no matter what u love them and always will and when they have a family and child of there own u hope they will make the best choices for them and that u would like to work together in getting through the adolessen years and if they can forgive u for not being all that they want u to be for them but u are a mother that love them and to think about how they would handle a situation like theres but always reminding them that ur the mother and they will one day be a mother too! And if u never done it before get down on ur knees in front of them and pray ..cry out to the LORD and ask him to give u all the strenght to get throught the rough times in ur life ..let them see u let them see ur hurt and sencerity! You do ur part and let the Lord do the rest. that means u have to trust in God that he will! so far that would be my advice to u ....good luck and God Bless u and ur family tleaderPosted 11-24-2008 at 12:10 AM by tleader
