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God In My Garden

Posted 07-15-2009 at 05:05 PM by elston
Updated 07-17-2009 at 04:54 AM by elston


HOMILY

There is a poem that I first saw on an embroidered sampler,

the sort of hand craft item that used to hang in New England

parlors. Perhaps you have it, or have seen it.

Surrounded by fancy stitches depicting flowers and garden

paths and gates, the text goes:

The kiss of the sun for pardon,
The song of the birds for mirth,
I am nearer to God in my garden
Than anywhere else on earth”

I didn’t choose this text because it is great

poetry, it isn’t;
although it is the best stanza from an otherwise rather dreary poem

by Dorothy Frances Gurney about God and Adam and Eve in the

Garden of Eden. This version is really a misquote of the

original poem….but it fits my purpose this Sunday

morning. So I have taken this as my text and will spend a little time

this morning exploring the “spirituality of gardens” and some of the

lessons I have learned while working or walking in my garden.


The first lesson that I want to share with you has to do with

continuity and connection. Flower gardens usually contain some

annuals and some perennials…Annuals, like petunias and marigolds

add a quick splash of color—but have to be reseeded or planted

each spring; Perennials are those plants that put down roots and

come back year after year after winter has passed.


I find that certain annuals have scattered seeds and many perennials

have put down roots in my heart. They have the power to evoke

the memories of loved ones who have passed on. For that reason I

plant them in my garden.

I can’t imagine starting a New England garden

and not having some lupine growing in it…because my mother

loved them so….and was especially proud of them in her garden in

Eastport, Maine. She was also fond of nasturtiums and

father regularly included some of them for her, in the annual beds. I

have both lupine and nasturtiums growing in my garden in

Gorham…for my mother. There is some version of immortality

planted with the lupine and nasturtiums. I remember her.


My Dad was a master gardener….and most of what I know about

gardening I learned by watching him. He was an expert on

compost…and I think long before the Green Movement...he

understood the spirituality of the compost pile and the importance of

giving back to the earth more than we take from it. There is

something very much like reincarnation in the compost

pile….whereby today’s coffee grounds and eggshells, transform into

rich loam and then are re- incarnated as roses or sun flowers or

perhaps a tomato seedling that volunteers in the bed where the

compost was spread.

Indeed as in a garden, nothing is lost and nothing is wasted….Life is

a circle and we all come round again in some form or another.


Dad’s specialty was herbs, and the fragrance of thyme, sage, mint,

basil and a host more.. all have the power to call him back

When I work in or walk in my garden I find myself in the company

of loved ones. In the same way household shrines welcome back

the spirits and the blessings of the family’s ancestors. For me plants,

have the power to evoke spirits who carry with them LOVE and

blessings from the past. I can feel it. And since I believe

“God Is Love”…. I am “closer to

God in my garden than anywhere else on earth.”


Another spiritual lesson I have learned or been reminded of while in
my garden…..has to do with balancing “vision” and “patience” .

When we moved to our new home in Maine….we drew up a

master plan for the garden, My partner , literally drew it with

a stick on the bare soil of our acre lot and we set out digging and

planting,watering and weeding….

We had some success…but by fall we joined with all gardeners

everywhere….sighing and saying “Wait till next year!”

And immediately before the last leaf of fall had been raked into a pile

we.began re-arranging, raising,

enriching, tearing out and re-placing much of the effort and many of

the mistakes of the first year. I am happy to report we are having

much more success this year.

The lesson I derive from this is a gardener’s version of a line from

my Universalist upbringing…. That line was from the “Avowal of

Faith”: which we used to recite on Sunday mornings.

“We believe in the power of people of good will and sacrificial

spirit to overcome all evil and to progressively establish the

kingdom of God.”

As a gardener I paraphrase that tenet of faith and say, “I believe

that with good intentions and a willingness to work hard and with

time….it is possible to over come poor drainage, weeds and insects

and unfavorable climatic conditions” and “bit by bit and row by row

make my garden grow”. …

The concept of “progressively establishing

the Kingdom of God” is a reminder that one summer does not a

garden make…If I live a long life….I know that on my last garden

walk I will still pull a weed and I will be still noting that I need to dig

and divide this clump, or try that sickly looking plant in another

spot where it gets more or less sun or where the drainage is better

The corrolary of this garden lesson is….We may not be able to

change the world; ease all suffering or right

each wrong….but we can attend to our little corner and

thru our work and effort make it better. So in my garden, in my

neighborhood, in my social circle. I can and should live out my

principles and values and be a positive

force and “let my little light

shine”.


Another lesson I derive from my garden I am going to call the

“Buddha Thing”. It has to do with accepting the imperfection and

impermanence of the physical world and recognizing that attachment

and holding on is the source of suffering.
The garden is a place of growth…but it is

also a place of death and decay. Slugs are busy devouring the

yellowing leaf from the eggplant that failed to thrive due to the wet

and the cold this year, and the display of irises that delight me today

will be gone next week and I will reluctantly dead head the flower

stalks and add them to the compost pile.

Also the perfection of the rose….is really less than perfect when you

try to find the perfect one for a special occasion. Some are just a bit

over blown and losing petals….there is

a Japanese beetle eating the heart out of this one and that one is

a bit oddly shaped.…from a distance it all looks so

lovely….but as Robert Frost reminds us…..”nothing gold can stay.”


It is indeed impermanent….and that is part of the beauty….Artificial

flowers are predictable and unchanging…..but oh my! the

horror of a garden of dead lifeless beauty….I will take my “work in

progress” of living, growing and dying and decaying…over any plastic

substitute.


There are other lessons and proofs of lessons available to me in the

garden. The one that appeals to the visionary mystic part of my

spiritual self.is the opportunity to work in tandem with the

underlying Life Force that surrounds us all. For indeed although I call

it my garden, I don’t really possess it and I don’t really “grow”

anything. At best I facilitate nature and work with her to create the

garden. The processes and miracles and mysteries…are beyond my

understanding. and really beyond my control. I am an apprentice to

the Life Force found in the soil, in water, in seeds and in sun light.

Alfred Lord Tennyson wrote about that mystery in his poem, “Flower

in a Crannied Wall” I will close with his words.

Flower in the crannied wall,
I pluck you out of the crannies;
I hold you here, root and all, in my hand.
Little flower…but if I could understand
What you are, root and all, and all in all,
I should know what God and man is."
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  1. Old Comment
    So lovely!
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    Posted 07-16-2009 at 11:09 PM by moughie moughie is offline
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    Wonderful, Elston! I know next to nothing about the Universalist beliefs, and what you have mentioned here seems to show such a beautiful view of life. Thank you for sharing.
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    Posted 07-19-2009 at 09:08 AM by piperspal piperspal is offline
  3. Old Comment
    Beautifully said, elston!
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    Posted 07-19-2009 at 11:54 AM by IOPbaby IOPbaby is offline
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    You have a real way with words, a true gift for conveying complex things in a beautiful and comprehensible way.

    I am not and never have been a church-goer. But if the lessons offered in church were more like yours, Elston, chances are excellent that I'd start going.

    Thank you for sharing your heart with us this way, my friend. Peace be with you.
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    Posted 07-19-2009 at 10:43 PM by MidwesternBookWorm MidwesternBookWorm is offline
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    Thank you for reading my "blog" and I appreciate your kind comments. I so enjoyed thinking about this topic and writing and delivering it.

    It was very well received by the congregation.
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    Posted 07-20-2009 at 05:40 AM by elston elston is offline
  6. Old Comment
    I had forgotten this poem...it's one of my favorites...and it is so true. 'M'
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    Posted 07-28-2009 at 06:18 PM by 'M' 'M' is offline
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    This Sunday someone told me that when they told their mother about my sermon.....she went out and bought a blue hydrangea.....in memory of her mother...because she loved them so....and she wanted to invite her presence into her garden.

    You know I love that.
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    Posted 08-04-2009 at 04:15 PM by elston elston is offline
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    Elston - I too am a gardener and have been for a long time. Something tells me I'll be looking at my gardens a bit differently now.
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    Posted 08-26-2009 at 09:43 PM by Umbria Umbria is offline
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    Elston-Beautiful! I'm going out today to plant a Gardenia for my Mom.
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    Posted 09-29-2009 at 08:03 AM by Bella52 Bella52 is offline
  10. Old Comment
    Beautifully said!

    My mom loved her garden & I often remember her joy as I see the plants she loved.
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    Posted 07-26-2010 at 09:07 AM by Gue Gue is offline
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    Thank you~I am moved! Special thanks for giving me the name of a poem that I have wished I could recall - the Tennyson poem. The very verse you quote had its grip on me once; reading it again, I am grateful to be reminded why.

    But I am too sleepy to say "why" just now~ maureen
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    Posted 08-07-2010 at 05:35 PM by maureenb maureenb is offline
 

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