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Posted 08-04-2008 at 08:07 AM by Acevaz
Updated 08-04-2008 at 08:22 AM by Acevaz

This past weekend I found someone that I thought I knew very well do something which was pretty low and then lied about it. I felt as though I was sucker punched. The person denies doing it but I have clear evidence that they did write it and send it from their own personal email.

I don't want to continue to fighting with this person but it bothers me they continue saying it was not them who sent the email which I find impossible to believe.

The action and lie has left me hurt. I don't even know how to tackle the problem if the person doesn't even fess up to their own mistake. To be honest, I feel like hurting them right back but deep down inside I know that won't resolve the problem but will only make it worse.
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  1. Old Comment
    Acevaz, you are right about revenge..It sounds loike a problem solver, but most of the time it only adds kindling to the fire and you find yourself on the same level as the provoker..Unless the lie threatens your job or anything else I would let it die out..
    Posted 08-04-2008 at 09:33 AM by Miss Blue Miss Blue is offline
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    Thanks, Blue. I'm thinking of letting it die and see what is the next chapter to the drama.
    Posted 08-04-2008 at 09:58 AM by Acevaz Acevaz is offline
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    I agree with Blue..
    Posted 08-04-2008 at 10:02 AM by arguy1973 arguy1973 is offline
    Updated 08-04-2008 at 02:15 PM by arguy1973
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    I always agree with blue...she is wise.
    Posted 08-04-2008 at 12:58 PM by poconoproud poconoproud is offline
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    I always agree with Blue too! Revenge, never a problem solver.
    Posted 08-04-2008 at 03:36 PM by Summering Summering is offline
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    I gotta agree with blue as well. Revenge always has a way of turning around on ya and biting you in the behind. besides, instead of feeling good, it makes you feel bad.
    Posted 08-04-2008 at 09:49 PM by aiangel_writer aiangel_writer is offline
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    there are times i feel the same way .. this guy i liked and thought liked me .lied .. some times people are just so fake but i mean now you know how they really are and see them for what they are worth .. you the better person cause you know the truth ... why step down to their level ... your better then that ...i am sure ... revenge never solves anything ..
    Posted 08-05-2008 at 06:53 AM by brenda starz brenda starz is offline
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    IMHO, It is one thing to "let it die"; but that doesn't mean to doubt yourself and to forget all about it...you should trust your instincts and be a little on-guard, don't be vulnerable...you maybe absolutely correct [probably are] and you need to make sure you arent giving the message that you are a patsy . Don't go for revenge, but keep your guard up.
    Posted 09-17-2008 at 12:15 PM by elston elston is offline
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    the real question is, "how much are you willing to tolerate?" Apparently this person is a bold-faced liar, and you know the phrase, a zebra never changes its stripes. keep it moving and let a clear conscience and whatever you define success as to be your vengence
    Posted 10-03-2008 at 12:29 AM by the intelligent brotha' the intelligent brotha' is offline

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