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Originally Posted by lostsoul359
Dude, if she like you she will let you know.
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Originally Posted by LLCNYC
This x 1000. I don't understand what is so difficult to understand. Very few women (I am a woman) are going to keep it a secret so all theses bizarre plans, "styles" etc. are useless.
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Originally Posted by Auraliea
Stop thinking of it as a step by step equation. You're just going to make yourself (and others) feel uncomfortable.
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OP, read the above quotes. As I said in your other thread...don't be that guy that makes people uncomfortable.
IMO, you shouldn't be looking to escalate anything. These things need to happen (or not happen) naturally. The woman will make it clear if she's interested. And if she doesn't, you just need to accept that.
Your recent posts come across as showing a predatory and creepy mindset. Based on some of the other posters' comments, I don't think I'm alone in thinking that. And if people online are picking up on that from your posts, I have to assume you're making people uncomfortable in person.
I understand you're getting frustrated, but....
"I've read many threads (elsewhere) and articles from women complaining about being hit on by guys they're not interested in but that's a risk I've got to learn to take."
^^^^ This is a really bad idea. If you're not getting clear signs of interest from a woman, please leave her alone.