Port Graham, Alaska

[warptman]

Don't you feel dumb when you are wrong?

[Rance]

They should still show some respect and get jobs and pay you some rent if they are to live in your household. Or find a place of their own.

[Xa'at]

Originally Posted by warptman

Don't you feel dumb when you are wrong?

Be nice, Warpt. She learned her lesson...

[warptman]

Wasn't necessarily to her, everyone in general. I feel dumb all the time whenever I'm wrong(I'm always right in my mind). I know I should have typed it that way, but I was wrong.

[renmill]

Thanks Xa'at and that's ok Warptman, I did not take it badly. My visitor from Pt Graham is still here--6 weeks now and still wants to try college here. I am proud but I find it odd that 2 young people who are supposedly in love sleep in the same bed and I mean just sleep--no sex yet, and a decline in the marriage proposal stating she is too young and needs to finish college first-which impresses me also, but I still find the no sex thing yet kinda odd. several folks think she is merely using him/us to stay here and not return to AK. I hope that is not the case. In case u wonder how I know 4 sure there has been no sex? Well, I overheard her say that to him, when the door was not completely closed, and it never is. This is his first love, don't know bout hers but if there is no future why i am I allowing her to stay here with us in this tiny 3 bedrm apt(6 here now) and making my other kid give up his bed for an air matress?????????????

[User 2]

[Dusty Rhodes]

Lol, sometimes I feel dumb when I'm right. It can bother me when I take an excessive amount of time to come to the right conclusion, ie- adamantly and vociferously avowing a specific (erroneous) opinion for years to suddenly realize, OOPS, MY BAD!!!! Damn,... I hate it when I do that.

[cobolt]

Originally Posted by renmill

Thanks Xa'at and that's ok Warptman, I did not take it badly. My visitor from Pt Graham is still here--6 weeks now and still wants to try college here. I am proud but I find it odd that 2 young people who are supposedly in love sleep in the same bed and I mean just sleep--no sex yet, and a decline in the marriage proposal stating she is too young and needs to finish college first-which impresses me also, but I still find the no sex thing yet kinda odd. several folks think she is merely using him/us to stay here and not return to AK. I hope that is not the case. In case u wonder how I know 4 sure there has been no sex? Well, I overheard her say that to him, when the door was not completely closed, and it never is. This is his first love, don't know bout hers but if there is no future why i am I allowing her to stay here with us in this tiny 3 bedrm apt(6 here now) and making my other kid give up his bed for an air matress?????????????

I don't know...something smells really off here with this whole setup. I think it's a bit strange that you think it's strange that your son isn't having sex while living under your roof. Either this girl is a person with strong morals (BTW..didn't you claim you were Christian? Shouldn't you be glad your kid isn't having sex??) or she may very well be using you/your son to stay there. Easy way to find out: tell her/them it's time to pitch in the $$$ and get a job. College isn't free, you know, and either are living expenses.

Good luck with all of that.......

[renmill]

I mentioned a lot the job thing he wks part time while about to finish college she has him tke her out to eat at least once every day she keeps her money. He is trying for more wk hrs she will not work scared to venture out in strange land it seems. As for no sex, i am as proud as a peacock that is not an issue however, I do find it odd. I have had a lot to suggest she may be using us all to stay here. I pray I am wrong. He loves her so, and my youngest still sleeps on an air mattress. Nothing I have tried seems to work. She is extremely moody every other week and she won't talk much anyway to me. Stays in room alone whole time he is away. Oh well, live and learn