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Originally Posted by canadian1
I want to apologize for my attitude towards Rance and his lovely little 18 yr old, Sweden. I guess my harsh words came from my own personal situation within my family, and my father doing the same thing. He married a girl younger than my older sister. And to myself and my siblings it was sick! We couldn't even understand it as young teenagers, ourselves. Myself, and my other 3 siblings do not talk to our father today after 30 years. We have a half brother, and a half sister from his very young wife, and we can't get together because of such bad emotions and what our father did. So, I shouldn't judge what these 2 are doing today. Times have changed, and I wish you both good luck. But, I will tell you Rance, be careful.
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Sounds like you and your siblings have mental issues. Not only should you not judge Sweden or myself...you shouldn't be judging your father. If he found a young woman that makes him happy, married her, and now has children with her...he must be fairly happy in his decision. So you should be happy for him/them. Do you have a problem with your father no longer being with your mother? Or is it just about age? Not talking to your father for 30 years because he chose to re-marry...thats just dumb. I suppose you and your siblings would prefer he was a single loner, living like a hermit? Would you talk to him then? Or would you be ashamed and avoid him such as you do now? Have you ever taken the time to think about how your father feels? I'd imagine he feels terrible that his own children shun him...over something so unimportant, the age of his wife. I feel sorry for you. The times you've missed, and are missing with your father. How can you be so selfish? Do yourself a favor, call your Dad..today.
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and if you know who had planned it they could of been there in person ahem
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No Karla...I have to work! I would love to be at the race today. Maybe next year tho!