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Originally Posted by Trkstp Tina
1. Lack of sense of community. I can't put my finger on it--perhaps the "car culture," the Western mindset, the walls around the house.
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Yeah Tina, you know that I am one of the most pro-Albuquerque ambassadors alive that you'd find walking the feet of the earth, and still, I think the biggest negative that I had too, in ABQ, was sort of this same thing.
Albuquerque, I found, is filled with very pleasant, very nice, very cordial people. I was actually surprised how many people I found quite cordial and agreeable in ABQ compared to the big Midwestern cities I was so much more familiar with.
However, I equally found kind of a lack of that old-school "community neighborliness"...
I think ultimately that was the reason my wife and I ended up relo'ing back to the Midwest, even though now we really regret our decision. But I will cede that this area I am in now (and my hometown originally) - the Milwaukee, WI area - has more of that "community flavor".
My basic $.02 on the issue is that in areas of the Midwest, east coast, etc., you have families, ties, and roots that go back literally for generations on end. People have invested life-ties to a particular city/region/area and their roots go back accordingly...not just in terms of family and friends, but in terms of community - interests, sports, hobbies, food, etc.
In ABQ, ABQ is obviously a very aged city and there certainly are pockets of natives with deep-rooted histories in the area. Yet, it is a very "young" city in many regards...it really does appeal strongly to transplants, and there are just huge numbers of the populace that come from areas other than Albuquerque originally.
With that, while people are certainly very nice and laid back in general in ABQ, there isn't the joint sense of "hey, on Sundays, when the weather is cold, gloomy, and crummy (neighborhor-X), why don't you grab a 6-pack at the store and comeon over for the Packers game?" Or, "hey, we've just gone through a 7-month winter, now that it is nice outside and euphoria has struck, (neighbor-Y), why don't you grab a pack of brats, come on over, and we'll have a cookout together, as we've been doing every May since the beginning of man?"
I just think in areas where you get so many people who were born, raised, lived, and died all in the same general vicinity, you get much more of the bond of community, togetherness, etc.
So in my ramblings, bottom-line is, I agree with you. I guess the good news is, that:
a) ABQ has extraordinarily quality, good-natured, laid back folks and thus, there is certainly a strong social potential for folks if they can just "connect" through places like school, work, etc.
b) The more we northern transplants live - and the longer we do so - in ABQ, stuff will start to happen.
I am absolutely convinced that ABQ will never be a Phoenix or a Vegas in terms of long-term massive size and a lack of community together-ness...the growth in ABQ is just at a better pace to allow stuff like that to happen.
It is a challenge for ABQ residents, however, I am hopeful over time it can happen. Yet, that doesn't make it necessarily easy I realize in the meantime. If it did, I wouldn't have made the personal bad choice of leaving the area to begin with.
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Originally Posted by Trkstp Tina
4. My hands are dry all the time. Believe it or not, sometimes I miss humidity.
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I always did in ABQ too. It was weird - I loved (and still do) ABQ largely in some aspects due to the dry, desert air, and yet, I found myself (especially after doing a run on a 98 degree, cloudless day where the sun burned like a hot iron and the humidity was at some crazy low level like 7%) missing humidity just so awfully much.
In this regard, I equally "share your pain."
Having moved to a humid climate again though, I do feel strongly it is better to:
A) Live in a dry climate, occasionally missing humidity and getting back to it in trips, than
B) Live in a humid climate, always missing the dry, and getting back to dry in trips.
That is just me I will admit. But:
a) I will forever be able to attest to folks here who hate humidity that yes, humidity isn't all bad, but also
b) I will forever now know that dry is better than humidity.
Milwaukee's May through September weather is absolutely tremendous. Seriously. While I bemoan (and rightfully so) the long, crummy winters here, Mays through Septembers are great. 60s, 70s, and 80s, decently warm nights, a nice mix of sun, clouds, dry and rain.
However, it is humid. What does that help bring? Well, after nightfall, lots and lots and lots of mosquitoes and flying-insect-biting creatures. THAT S*CKS!!
So, I just waited for 8 months for warm weather, here it is, but often, once sunset hits, it is hard to be outside due to the swarms of biting insects. Argh, that stinks.
Also, on the days where it should be hot (but not un-enjoyably hot) - say 85, 88 degrees, etc., it is unenjoyable. The nights too. And again, that is unfortunate.
I believe ABQ's summers are hotter-than-ideal, however, due to the low humidities, you can almost always enjoy the evenings. You can't even do that nearly as consistently in a region where the summer temps are a good 10 to 20 degrees cooler...much due to humidities.
So why do I ramble on with this post?
a) To let you know that there are others out there that agree with you - at times missing humidity - because I was (and hopefully will be again) one of them.
b) To reassure you that if you hit humidity again, you'd miss that dry even sooner!
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Originally Posted by Trkstp Tina
5. Feels isolated. For us personally, it's far from family, friends. But being so far from the coastline and far from major cities sometimes gets to me.
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I think that is perhaps "east coast" syndrome, where you folks have like 10 major cities all within a few hours of a drive.
My experience, the Upper Midwest, I had Chicago - one of the major cities of the world - within an hour's drive, but otherwise, wasn't that close to other major cities in Milwaukee.
In ABQ, I always enjoyed being within 6 hours of Phoenix and Denver, a little more within Tucson, and only 4 hours within El Paso.
But I can see if you are used to being from Boston to NYC in a couple of hours, ABQ does seem remotely located.