Valley -
It isn't my intent in the least to get you angered with my ensuing post, because I am not trying to "argue" with you personally; I *am* going to "take on" a few items in your post, but just in friendly disagreement...again, nothing personal - and you are quite entitled to an opinion - just going to give my take in reaction to a few of your comments as kind-hearted debate:
As I currently live in the Upper Midwest - Milwaukee, WI (neighbor of MN's and just an hour north of Chicago) - and lived in ABQ from 03 until mid-07, have been back for a week once since and am returning again in fall, hoping to relocate back soon, I think I have a similar life experience perhaps.
1. I do note that you list that you reside in "Belen"...yet you are talking ABQ. Yet, in some of your responses, you seem to perhaps be mixing a "Belen point of view" and an "ABQ point of view"...surely, I am certain that you get up to ABQ often, so you likely encounter ABQ quite often, however, I do think it would be important to distinguish between the small town Belen on the much bigger city ABQ - I am kind of familiar with Belen, and certainly life in the two areas is much, much different despite their geographic proximities.
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Originally Posted by valleylilly34
I would stay in Chicago lol, the midwest is much nicer.
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Some would agree with you. Many, many folks up here in the Upper Midwest just love it here; many have lived here their entire lives. Many (my parents likely included) could never imagine living elsewhere, or seriously considering living elsewhere.
Transversely, others would heartily disagree...myself included. I find the Milwaukee area, for instance, to be OK - it has its good and its not-so-good for my tastes. To me, ABQ is quite superior, but, just to me. Also to me, I would go absolutely nuts / bonkers living elsewhere in the Upper Midwest in rural areas or smaller towns and despise it. And many have similar tastes to mine. But again, some don't.
The Upper Midwest and the Albuquerque area have one thing in common - they are both quite polarizing. People tend to really like the areas or really not.
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Originally Posted by valleylilly34
The winters are cold here even considering I lived on the Canadian border for 14 years. Hardly any snow, but freezing anyways.
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Originally Posted by valleylilly34
I know what cold is, I grew up having temps as cold as 70 below with windshields. Once its past 32 its just cold. All I am saying is that people think ABQ is warm in the winter and to me personally, 30-40 is not warm. Its still cold. You still have to wear a jacket. So...if you want somewhere warm, move to florida.
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This is one of the areas where I have the largest disagreement with your take.
Now, I will cede one of your points...sometimes people set themselves up for disappointment with ABQ winter.
They see ABQ in the heart of the American Southwest, and if they are not educated to the area, or the high desert, they just assume ABQ is like Phoenix or Death Valley or Miami or what have you with temps...not realizing that ABQ is a mile high, just a few hundred miles south of Colorado Springs CO, etc.
So when there is that off-day with a high of 38 only, or a few inches of snow, they are shocked, expecting that everyday in ABQ's winter will be 65 and balmy.
Heck, even I can admit that as much research as I did on ABQ before settling there, and as passionate as I was for the area, I was caught off guard by a couple of days in the winter, expecting ABQ's winter to be a tilt more akin to, say, El Paso TX's winter.
So yes, if someone never wants to take the shorts off, or never wants to have to wear a coat, the point is ceded - ABQ is not for them. HOWEVER...let's also then remember that Atlanta GA, Louisville KY, Memphis TN, Dallas TX, Birmingham AL, Oklahoma City OK, etc., etc., etc., ALSO are not "warm" cities by that definition, as those also will pick up fairly regular winter "snows" or cold bouts...and none of them are balmy throughout the winter.
In fact, truly *warm* winter climates in the sense of not ever having to wear a coat are pretty limited in the US...some of the Gulf Coast areas / some (although not all) of Florida, SoCal, etc. You can throw Phoenix and Tucson in there too, of course they too will have days with highs in the low 50s and lows in the 30s.
I guess what I dispute strongly though is you classifying that winters in ABQ are largely in their 30s or 40s. Remember, that the AVERAGE HIGH for the three coldest months of the year in ABQ - December through February - is 50 (FIFTY!) degrees!! And with ABQ's almost-always present high-altitude deset sun, 50 in the high desert feels much warmer than most people associate with 50.
While sure, there will be a handful of days where the high doesn't make it out of the 30s (although really only a handful; I believe ABQ averages only 4 days a year with a high lower than 40 degrees) and a number of highs only in the low or mid 40s, let's also remember that there will be a very high amount of days in these three months where the highs hit the mid-to-upper 50s and even low-to-mid-60s...once you hit that 55 to 65 degree range in ABQ with that strong sun, you can easily be in short sleeves and open up some windows in the house.
Now, while admittedly the winter high in the three months of Dec - Feb in ABQ is "only" 50 degrees, let's also remember that winter starts late and ends early. In an area like Milwaukee or in much of MN, winter starts more in late-October / early-November and doesn't truly conclude until mid-April at best. We had a day in early June here in Milwaukee where the high didn't eclipse 50. Early June.
Winter nights in ABQ can be chilly for sure, with the average high of 50 dipping to an average low of 25...respectably below freezing. And certainly, there will always be a number of winter nights that hit the teens, and usually a couple that might even teeter into the single-digits (although again, those single digit low nights are fairly rare).
Here, let's remember that Belen's nights are respectably chillier on average than most of ABQ's nights in the winter, due to Belen's geographic proximity in the valley.
Beyond that though, let's remember that while 25 degrees on an average winter night is chilly, most cities in the US would kill for that being their average winter lows. For 3 months of the year, 25 isn't even the average winter *high* here in Milwaukee!! And also remember, while you have the chilly night ahead of you in the winter, you have that beautiful winter daytime warmup to look forward to the next day.
A few good markers of winter's "temperate" side in ABQ (albeit I agree - not scorching warm):
-The heart of the majority of ABQ is a USDA gardening zone 7b. This is signficantly higher than most of the northern 2/3 of the US. You can grow semi-cold sensitive vegetation in ABQ that you couldn't in much of the US, and certainly not even close to in the Upper Midwest.
(Remember, Belen is more of a zone 6 or 6b due to its close proximity to the River in the valley).
-Golf is played year-round in Albuquerque. Outside of maybe 4 or 5 days per year due to being too chilly or a touch snowy, tourists and locals alike are teeing it up year round in the Duke City. One can't say that for months and months on end in the Upper Midwest.
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Originally Posted by valleylilly34
It's really windy here in the spring, but Chicago is the windy city so you're probably used to it.
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Remember though, ABQ largely is absent of the "spring" weather that affects most of the remainder of the nation at that time - severe t-storms, tornadoes, spring flooding, blizzards, ice storms, etc.
Also, remember that spring in ABQ hits early - by late February some fruit trees are sprouting their blossoms. By March, ABQ's weather is regularly in the 60s and 70s. Lilacs bloom in ABQ in late March / early April.
Transversely, here in Milwaukee (which is semi-temperate compared to much of the remainder of the Upper Midwest), 60s / 70s aren't regular until May, Lilacs don't bloom until early June, and things haven't "greened up" until May.
And its pretty frigging windy in the Upper Midwest in March, too. You just don't notice it as much because you are more prone to indoors still.
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Originally Posted by valleylilly34
Get ready for lots of petty crimes like having your car broken into 6 times over the course of 4 months (in nice areas...I'm not even talking about the ghetto area).
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Are you sure that you're talking Albuquerque and not Belen here?
I know I lived in an older, very middle-class (not even close to upper-middle class) area of the NE Heights in ABQ just off of Montgomery Blvd., and in 3.5 years of owning a modest home there with 2 cars always parked outside, I never had one incident...once. Throw in 6 months in an apartment with nada an incident, and that is over 4 years.
I am not going to act like petty crimes can't or don't happen in ABQ - they certainly do. I have two good-hearted senior relatives who live in ABQ, and a couple of times they've gotten their RV window shot out. So I do know it can happen.
However, I know many, many others in ABQ who've lived there for years and never had an incident.
I also just have to comment that part of living in a city of 500,000 to 1-million and beyond, petty crime and taking precaution to it / dealing with it, is sadly just a part of every day life. This isn't exclusive to ABQ. You could go to almost any "city" section on the CD Forums - any state - and you'll see a few complaining about this...I don't care if it is Miami, Tucson, Phoenix, Seattle, Omaha, Sacramento, Pittsburgh, Buffalo, Tampa, Jacksonville, etc., etc., etc., sadly, you'll see similar complaints of petty crimes. Unfortunately, this is just a part of every day life in a semi-big or big city.
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Originally Posted by valleylilly34
This city is poverty stricken,
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No its not.
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Originally Posted by valleylilly34
English is the second language in many areas
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I dunno. Maybe a little bit, but you could say this now about Chicago and almost every other big city in the US, Milwaukee too. Certaintly Denver.
I do know that I am gringo as gringo as gringo can be and speak only a lick of Spanish - barely any - and never once had even a semblance of a problem in communcation with folks. In El Paso? Yeah, you could tell it was a minor issue once in a blue moon. In Albuquerque? I never had an issue, and I worked professionally in my job in all segments with all types of folks in ABQ - including the South Valley.
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Originally Posted by valleylilly34
Health care is in many ways lacking.
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Such as?
People will always throw this one out there regarding whatever biggish city they have a problem with, but I rarely see examples.
I know my wife birthed two children in ABQ and our healthcare was just fine. I had a doctor, my wife had a doctor, my kids had pediatricians, and they were fine. No better or worse than anywhere else.
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Originally Posted by valleylilly34
The school systems applaud their 60% graduation rate.
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I will agree with you in this facet - overall, public education in the area is pathetic.
But again, I defy anyone to show me a semi-big or big major city in the US where their public school systems are successful.
This isn't exclusive to ABQ, or even close, in a big or semi-big city. Almost no one has a largely successful public school system in a city of any size.
This is a failing largely of family / parental structures, societal norms, and beauracracies.
Again, I won't defend ABQ's public school system - largely, with the exception of some alternatives (there are some very good public schools in ABQ's system) - I wouldn't go public in ABQ. All I am saying though, is you could say this about most any semi-biggish city in the US.
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Originally Posted by valleylilly34
Traffic is always backed up, it's like no one works.
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This is another one - like the winter comments - where I have to strongly (respectfully but strongly) disagree with you.
Have you ever done a rush hour in Chicago? Hell, on a Saturday morning in Chicago? What about DFW? Phoenix? Denver?
Albuquerque's "traffic" compared to almost any other city of size is a joke.
Sure, at peak rush hour times, traffic in ABQ can be clogged on I-40 and I-25, and the 'river bridges' such as Paseo and Montano get backed up.
But I think you are trying to compared ABQ's traffic (a metro of nearly 900K) to that of tiny International Falls, MN.
People that live in the mega mass that is 11+ million Chicago land, home of the occasional 3 hour one-way commutes, would absolutely laugh or scorn the notion of ABQ having any real traffic. Even little Milwaukee, my current town of a metro of 1.5 million, has far, far more significant traffic and jams than ABQ does.
Anyway, you like the Upper Midwest and I love ABQ - wanna switch!!??