Corrales is a more clustered area. They have a fairly good public elementary and some excellent private schools.
The community is always planning something. They have festivals and parades all the time. They also have one of the largest farmer's markets.
The library is a little small, but as you have very young children that will not matter (fountain in library)
They have lots of local small shops, and if you need shopping on a larger scale, well Alb is right down the road.
It feels like you are way out, but your not.
Congratulations on deciding to leave Ventana.