Wow! What a lively discussion! I had to go back and Condorito's post to see the origin of all the fuss!

IMO CR's post could be read from two perspectives: written with a quite sarcastic voice (while an icon might have assisted to clarify), or as a defense against stereotypes. But the fact that CR did post a number of stereotypical examples (bw, the KKK is alive & well in the Midwest), emphasized the word "hate" by capitalizing it (hate is such a strong word - are you saying you hate Arkansans, the ppl? Or simply the state and some of the ways of the ppl there?) ... it would seem that CR intended their post as their own personal opinion as opposed to speaking against those who might believe so, and the examples having provided the reasons why. IMO although it seemed pretty clear, I'd rather CR confirm if what CR posted, was their own judgment of Arkansans before I would ... make a similar judgment in reverse.
On that note,
I applaud luvarkansas, Southernnaturelover, & Sam I Am for their friendlier, less emphatically spoken defenses of a place they love & the ppl who make that place what it is. I spent a number of yrs in AR & of all the places I have lived (many) & traveled, I found Arkansans to be among the friendliest, most welcoming ppl I know - Hillbillies or not!

Yes - like in any other place, the collective values by which Arkansans live will not be as valued by other ppl, & it's great that we live in a country where we can still choose where we want to live. CR's post notes that CR had "been in" Berryville, "went to" Harrison, and had "driven through" Alpena. I cannot read CRs profile from here, but the post did not state how long they actually
lived in AR, if ever, or the basis on which s/he founded his/her values.
Generally, when ppl are personally malcontent, they are more prone to judging others & the world around them negatively. In that case, it is good that CR at least has been through AR to determine it is not the place s/he wants to be instead of simply making a decision on a stereotype itself. So "hate" it or not,
CR, I'm glad for you that you are making tracks to a place where you believe you will enjoy what that place has to offer in terms of ppl and the values they live.
Safe travels to you & make you find every happiness!
Just a note: Some women
do get hot seeing & thinking about men in camouflage driving trucks - bringing home the "bacon" so they can "fry it up in the pan!"

If that is something you do not like, be aware that you will find men in camouflage in the Midwest, too! Decked in camouflage, flaming orange caps & blazers, driving their trucks, and beer-in-hand to boot! So don't let *that* sway you... or you'll have to move out West, or to TX or OK where all you'll find are Cowboys!

(Lucky for me - I like both!)

I think it's
great that there are still some men out there that think they are *hot stuff studs*

as compared to men who have chosen to live more complacently (and somewhat wimpily IMO), complaining about not knowing how to act anymore with women having come to a point where women can provide for and defend themselves, if needed. (And I'm not saying their stating a confusion makes them wimpy but the choice of their actions reflecting such.)
And a final note
re: the Passion Play -
thank you Sam I Am... for anyone reading this post, if you have never seen it, I would highly encourage you to do so. It is a very
family-oriented event, so children are welcome! Bring some blankets if you go later in the fall - it can get a little chilly by the time they finish the play. It is a
fantastic portrayal of the last few days of the life of Christ, and whether one is a Christian or not, perhaps they would assign some value to the dramatical aspects of this
outdoor extravaganza, camels and all (or at least when I was there - there were camels), the sets & scenes, so
well-performed by such dedicated actors and actresses, ... right there
in the middle of the foothills of the Ozarks. (And it sure beats the expense of traveling to Germany to see the same which is only performed once every ten years.)
The Great Passion Play. Purchase Official Passion Play Tickets Here!
Oberammergau - Passion Play
Peace ~