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Old 07-30-2012, 01:33 PM
 
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The following post inspired me to start this thread

(Asian) Indian and white mixed children

My guess is that in the coming years there are going to be lot of cross ethnic/cultural marriages due to the increase in immigrant population. I'm a naturalized citizen myself and personally, I do not have any issues with my boys getting married to someone from a different ethnic background. I'm curious to find out who they'll marry though. Well, I need to wait a long time for that since my boys are still young .

Here are my questions to parents and boys/girls.

As a parent, will you approve (if we've a choice)/disapprove of the marriage? Either ways, what are the reasons behind your approval/disapproval?

As a boy/girl, do you really care what ethnicity your spouse is?

No racist comments please! Thanks for your input!

 
Old 07-30-2012, 07:59 PM
 
Location: Macao
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To me, it's a complete non-issue. I think I read that 1 in 7 are interracial in the u.s. of recent years.
 
Old 08-01-2012, 08:43 PM
 
Location: Maryland
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I'm a white male open to dating women from all races and ethnicities. So many of the most attractive, intelligent and personable women that I meet are from races and nationalities different from my own. As a young guy interested in dating, this is perhaps the best part of living in a multicultural society.
 
Old 08-01-2012, 09:53 PM
 
Location: Montgomery County, MD
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No one except the Tea Partiers and a lot of old people really care about interracial marriage. Especially most younger people date interracially.
 
Old 08-02-2012, 09:41 AM
 
Location: Another World Traveler
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No one except the Tea Partiers and a lot of old people really care about interracial marriage. Especially most younger people date interracially.
I agree. In the U.S., it's pretty much a non-issue especially among the younger generations. I believe the top 3 inter-racial marriages in the U.S. are between White Europeans and Native Americans/Japanese Americans/Filipino Americans.

In other countries, it might be an issue.
 
Old 08-02-2012, 09:46 AM
 
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Chiming in as a WASP American married to a native Japanese. Our DD is dating a WASP. We're good with it.
 
Old 08-03-2012, 10:58 PM
 
Location: Metro Phoenix
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I'm a white American male who primarily dates Asian/hapa women. It follows that my kids will most likely be a quarter to half Asian. I am totally cool with them dating whatever ethnicity or race that the right person for them happens to be from.

As I said to one of my (Asian male) friends, who asked me how I'd feel if my little sister started dating a black guy: I'd much, much rather her date a black guy who's good to her, has his act together, loves her, and respects her, than a guy who looked like us but was a manipulative loser.
 
Old 08-05-2012, 01:15 AM
 
Location: CA
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My parents do not care about the ethnicity of the person I marry.
I am open to any ethnicity.
I find this attitude the norm in Southern California.
 
Old 08-05-2012, 08:10 AM
 
Location: Burnsville, Minnesota
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I agree. In the U.S., it's pretty much a non-issue especially among the younger generations. I believe the top 3 inter-racial marriages in the U.S. are between White Europeans and Native Americans/Japanese Americans/Filipino Americans.

In other countries, it might be an issue.
You mean European Americans?
 
Old 08-05-2012, 09:30 AM
 
Location: Another World Traveler
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You mean European Americans?
You are correct, Sir! Thanks for the correction.
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