In which Asian countries are marriages still commonly arranged (by family, matchmaker etc.)

[Michiko_shanyang]

Originally Posted by Britishairwayflcustomer

I live in Singapore, some Indonesian young women workers here date and have extramarital sex(husbands back in ID) with Singaporeans and foreigners(mostly Pakistani men). On Sundays when Indonesian women and others have holidays, these couple can be seen out everywhere and in love hotels of course. There are some Indoneisans in openly lesbian relations in Singapore as well.

Once they left Indonesia, they behave differently. And Indonesia is not as conservative as South Asia and the Middle East. Still, Indonesians marry very early and have families involved in chosing future spouses.

I forgot in Hongkong a lot of british men with good job have couple with indonesian maid/ nanny this is fact

[winnycaritta]

Originally Posted by Britishairwayflcustomer

I live in Singapore, some Indonesian young women workers here date and have extramarital sex(husbands back in ID) with Singaporeans and foreigners(mostly Pakistani men). On Sundays when Indonesian women and others have holidays, these couple can be seen out everywhere and in love hotels of course. There are some Indoneisans in openly lesbian relations in Singapore as well.

Once they left Indonesia, they behave differently. And Indonesia is not as conservative as South Asia and the Middle East. Still, Indonesians marry very early and have families involved in chosing future spouses.

I often go to Singapore there is no Indonesian women like you wrote, it's because you see female Indonesian workers (babysitters, helper, caregiver parents) or filipino workers in singapore.
don't equate them with others indonesian women ,100% Indonesian women will never do things your writing

[winnycaritta]

Originally Posted by Michiko_shanyang

I strongly agree with your comments, even the Indonesian government today will stop sending women workers out of the country * including singapore. These women are usually free with what they do, this is done by female workers (domestic workers), not just seeing them dating people pakistan men even indian, bangladesh and nepalis men . but this is not only happening to Indonesian workers, even filipinas workers like that .. sometimes see them dating premises from south asian guy , even they often fight just because from south asian men , hihihihi...


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LtVbX0MsuUk

funny this vidio and embarrassing, fight to get korean or japanese or bule ..msh mending kaleee , fight to indian men hahahaha

[justanokie]

I think arranged marriages aren't uncommon anywhere. Even in western countries there are plenty of immigrants from areas where its common who continue the practice it.

Also there are apparently plenty of people using mail order bride and matchmaking services. Its still an arranged marriage, just a business doing the matchmaking instead of a family member.

Originally Posted by winnycaritta

I often go to Singapore there is no Indonesian women like you wrote, it's because you see female Indonesian workers (babysitters, helper, caregiver parents) or filipino workers in singapore.
don't equate them with others indonesian women ,100% Indonesian women will never do things your writing

Yes there is. Nobody said all Indonesian women are like this but there are plenty of them that do this in Indonesia and in Singapore.

[Tomboy-]

Many parents in Asia are still more concern about their children's future spouses than western parents.