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Originally Posted by Peaceful Forever
I have always wondered these.... Please answer
1. Does anyone in your family/friends know you are an atheist/agnostic?
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I assume almost everyone knows I am a skeptic or nontheist. I have been one for the past almost six years.
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2. Do you celebrate Christian holidays of Christmas and Easter?
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My family observes Yule/Winter Solstice and Krismas. We also observe Oestre or the Spring Equinox. The origins of both Christmas and Easter are "Pagan."
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3. Will you baptize your child if your spouse wanted?
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No, but then I would not date or marry someone who aligns with a dogmatic, organized religion of any sort. My partner and I share the same views on pretty much all matters of philosophy and spirituality.
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4. Do you consider Jesus as a great person and philosopher?
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Ahh, on the verge of C.S. Lewis's trilemma. I consider the character to be neither. I have a very low, if not nonexistent Christology.
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5. Why can't you just call yourself for "secular" rather than atheist, agnostic or nonbeliever?
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Er, I am secular, but I am also a relative metaphysical atheist because there are deity concepts I simply reject. Everyone is an atheist or relative metaphysical atheist. I'm just intellectually honest enough to admit it.
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6. How do you feel being surrounded by churches, God mentioned all the time, etc. in your daily life?
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Thankfully, now that I am back in So Cal I am not surrounded by churches or talk of deities. However, in the area of the South I primarily lived before moving here, Atlanta, I was not around many churches or proselytizing. Thank Zeus.
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7. Do you wish America was officially an atheist country?
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I wish for America to be secular and not promote any religion or metaphysical position. I wish for the American government to stay true to its constitutional roots, and not make exceptions for any one religious tradition. I don't give a damn what others choose to believe. Believe in invisible wish-granting garden gnomes for all I care, so long as they remain personal and do not infringe on the rights and liberties of others.
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8. What if your children or spouse want to believe in God, pray, wear cross, etc.? What will you do?
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My partner and I come from similar religious backgrounds and share a very similar deconversion journey. We have very similar, if not identical positions or beliefs concerning the metaphysical. Spirituality is not a concern of mine; however, I would not and could not be with someone who aligns with orthodoxism, obscurantism, dogmatism, absolutism, exclusivism, and inclusivism. If my partner's beliefs are of the more esoteric/pluralistic/monistic variety commonly seen in Eastern philosophy and other ancient traditions, that is fine; however, if said beliefs are in any sense conservative/mainstream, orthodox or evangelical, it s a no-go.
I do not foresee my children believing in or praying to the Abrahamic deities any more than I do the Greek, Roman, Egyptian, Celtic, Norse deities. El/Yahweh, Jesus and Holy Spirit make about as much sense to them as the Mayan deities. That is to say they are nothing more than deity characters in ancient mythos. It's fine to appreciate ancient literature and mythology, to view it as a human truth, recognizing the wisdom or message they may possess. However, in terms of Absolute, metaphysical, Truth, I greatly discourage such. I do not take ancient mythology to be literal in meaning whatsoever. This goes for all mythology, including Hebrew, Christian, and Islamic. I greatly discourage believing mythology of any kind is inerrant and literal.
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9. If you get serious sick / old - will you start believe in God and ask for prayers?
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"If you become seriously ill, will you stat believing in or praying to Zeus or Thor?"
No? Well that's my answer, too. Your El/Yahweh, Jesus and Holy Spirit are to me what Zeus, Mithra, Ra, Apsu, Ahura Mazda, Isis, Ishtar, et al., are to you. They do not register on your radar, and likewise, your deities do not register on mine.
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10. Why can't you just believe without questioning/be in doubt about God's existence without going to church, pray, etc.?
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I don't believe in mythological deities. Calling them "god" does not make them any less fanciful, mythical or mythological.
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11. Do you use any religious terms such as "bless you" e.g. when somebody sneeze?
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Never.
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12. Would you rather live/buy a house next to a mosque, synagogue or church if you had to pick/choose?
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I frankly don't care.
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13. If you had to pick, would you rather live under Christian or Islamic theocracy?
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Neither.
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14. What do you think about Islam?
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The same as I do Christian mythology and all other ancient mythology.