Interracial dating for a black woman in ATL? (Atlanta: crimes, neighborhoods)

[arimor]

Originally Posted by matrixguy

Not only barley but I never hear black women saying that want a non- black man. I doubt if even 5% of black women in america are willing to date outside their race. But i always hear white woman say they only date black males.

thats no different from what i was saying about blacks,i heard it too and i shake myhead and theres stereotypes to why,-blacks are good in bead,havebiggerdicks, they have this style etc anyways

So i guess those white woman don't like they're race either. Why do more white woman leave their race for black males than american white men do.

who knows theres too many white women to do that equation!

Like you said white men stay with their race more.
i take that back white men are also prone to date asian women, i was just speaking on white-men to black-women(AMERICANS).

But how come white woman aren't doing the same? Why are white woman dating outside their race mainly black males than white men.

THATS A BIG CLUE IT MAY HAVE SOMETHING TO DO WITH WHAT I SAID above, or rebellion, location?
i know you remember white parents used to say or sometimes still do say "you better not date a black boy" and they do it anyway lol, i dont know bad example? but you would have to ask white women as i stated before and believe black and white americans are the same culturally we're americans with no hyphens! black brasilians and white brasilians are the same in cultural aspect as well as there are minor differences.


And i never hear black men in general talking about white women.
the conditioned ones lol, still i think black men(many not all) glorify other women)


But yet these some of white women hunt them down like prey.
i have experienced that before but not being hunted down lol! but i wasnt in too em. alot of them were/are easy as hell it just depends on them individualy not as a whole.

How come they don't go after the asian, or hispanic man like the black male.
they do! you have to see the hispanic term from my view it isnt a race its an ethnic group, you also have to consider the city/demographics of, i have seen many, i also seen a few white women with asian indians tho indians(india) usually stay with there own

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[arimor]

Originally Posted by Arish

Alot of them do date Hispanics I have seen it on occasion but it is mostly Puerto Ricans.

this is common, but Puerto ricans are a nationality of people and hispanic by ethnicity depending on the city you live in you'll see puerto ricans who are actually black! in milwaukee we barely have them and when there are some they get confused as african americans even by there own ppl and racism comes out!


The theory that alot of afro American women have is that: The man is supposed to provide and do it all no matter what the cost is or sacrifice ! After a while it gets pretty old you just want someone to help you for a change or do something nice for you with out a price !

co sign! everything should be 50/50 split at least, those type of chicks i stay the hell away from lol


I mean with alot of them when the money runs out the love runs out.
you on point, i cant disagree with that.question tho what type of black women have you dated i know from experiences there are a few types

-ghetto ones(typical maury guest),very ignorant, very hoodish, drama

-intelligent ones(nicehead on shoulder) the one you bring home to momma who stays the same and work with you. isnt a pushover.dont like drama, unno?

-then the one who flip flops on you a mixture of the 2 with some attributes missing.

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[Love Cobb]

Originally Posted by Larry Sockwell

Knowing your neighbors and socializing with them are two completely different things. I had a complete butthole for a neighbor for three years and I never knew more about him than his name and ability to swear loudly. His kid was the same. I did not allow my son to play with the boy because of that.

I keep a close watch on what my son does and who he is with at all times. If you do not, you are not doing your children any favors.

As far as what he does when he is of age, and wisdom, to make decisions and form opinions for himself....those will be his choices. He will have my experience to call upon when he is faced with decisions that leave him wondering. He will also have my values, beliefs and morals within him to guide him in when he dos not feel the need to call me.

Notice, he is my son, not a son of society.




Larry

I too am very involved with my children so don't assume otherwise. Once your children become of age they will make their own decisions and hopefully what you have instilled in them will help guide them through life. I just know that at a certain point in life every one will make their own decisions and some times your childrens decisons are not exactly that which the parents would have them choose. Life is about lessons learned and every one has to walk lifes path on their own terms. Therefore for you or any one else to assume that your child would not choose someone of a different race is really not your decision after all.

[Arish]

Originally Posted by arimor

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The ones I dated were pretty intelligent but I am guessing there heads weren't on there shoulder ! I have dated one ghetto one in the past but never again LOL !

[Arish]

Originally Posted by winter

It's not the color of one's skin. It's all about the person. I'm not changing my stance on interracial dating and or marriage. To address the question why do white women find some black men attractive. It's because they are very attractive(not all). The ones that are and have a good education, and behave as gentlemen, carry on intelligent conversations. That's probably why. Go with the flow Arish, life is beautiful embrace it. You sound too heavy. Enjoy yourself and let go of issues; it's not worth it in the end.

Well (NOT ALL) white people are very attractive either if you want to get technical about it. LOL ! We really don't care if you change your stance on this really we don't. As long as the world doesn't feel the way you do that is all that matters to me. My current girlfriend is white and she is pretty happy, very well educated and beautiful and so am I LoL !

[Arish]

Originally Posted by arimor

agreed it is kind of sad when we limit ouselves to certain things, tho i do know a few black american women who do damn near everything bcause life is short! i myself want to go mountain climbing lol at least a few times and travel alot more

I agree 100% because I am attracted to challenges if I know you inside and out that is not fun. I left the R kelly and Jodeci thug hopping era along time ago LOL ! It really gets boring after a while... give me a rock black chicks or goth, techno loving black chick that is hot or just some one with an identity outside of the norm. Those are just examples of how diverse some other cultures are even Hispanics have different types in America. I hate being in a box and I hate people judging me because I am a black guy that wear my pants like LENNY KRavitz or because I like to wear my shirts fitted? When Brett Michaels does it ..it is ok why is that ? It just bothers me man it really really does, so I just kinda have put in the towel really until I meet someone that shows me differently. Like I said, they are out there but you have to frequent events that you know you will find them. I went to a "She wants Revenge Show" and their were some afro American women there. But they just weren't up to speed in the looks department but we made great friends.

[rcsteiner]

Originally Posted by Larry Sockwell

You take an active role in their upbringing and make sure that they do not associate themselves with people that you do not approve of.

It's called parenting, a lost art.

I certainly approve of taking a proactive role (IMO many problems are caused by parents wanting to "be friends" with their kids instead of actually parenting them), but I suspect you'd be surprised how often your actions above will backfire.

You can certainly try to implant a set of core values in your kids, of course, and you will probably succeed to a certain extent, but in the end your kids will do what they feel is right.

I'm personally glad that I didn't limit myself to the set of people my parents would have considered "acceptable" once I got into high school and college. Some of the folks they would have considered "unacceptable" were simply outside of their experience. Not bad people at all -- just different.

[Jazz Piano]

Originally Posted by tgify2001

Hello All,

I am a 28 year old professional black woman who is thinking about a move to Atlanta for a job opportunity. For various reasons, I have decided that it would be best for me to date interracially. I would like to hear comments from any minority women who date interracially about their experiences. Although I am quite conservative, I wonder how minority women fare in the interracial dating arena and how open-minded people are.

I apologize if this has been posted before, but I didn't see my exact issue when doing a search!

Stupid question. People are people. Have you an ounce of social intelligence?

[ConyersGirl]

Originally Posted by tgify2001

Hello All,

I am a 28 year old professional black woman who is thinking about a move to Atlanta for a job opportunity. For various reasons, I have decided that it would be best for me to date interracially. I would like to hear comments from any minority women who date interracially about their experiences. Although I am quite conservative, I wonder how minority women fare in the interracial dating arena and how open-minded people are.

I apologize if this has been posted before, but I didn't see my exact issue when doing a search!

I live in Atlanta and find it easy to date interracially. White guys that I have met are not shy about approaching me at all.

[Betsey Lane]

Originally Posted by winter

Dating outside of ones race is a mistake. There are enough people inside the different races to make oneself more comfortable. There are beautiful good souls in all races. Don't waste your time. There's no way my children will date outside of their race.

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