I've been reading through the forum, to get a good idea of the metro area, as I'm considering relocating in the next two years. However, a lot of the stuff I've read is scaring me away. I know I need to see the area for myself, but I still can't help but be concerned about the negative comments I always see. I'm in Norfolk, VA, and I can't help but think that Atlanta is offering the stuff I'm not finding in Norfolk.
-Cost of living vs. salary
In Norfolk, a 3 BR "starter house" will run you over $250K, where, from what I've seen, you could get the same house (and then some!) for half the price down there. Also, to get a decent condo or townhouse, you'll have to make $50K+, which employers act like is a lot to ask. Without being too personal, I'm a college graduate making somewhere in the mid-20s right now (in my field of study), so trying to get my own place would seriously break the bank. It seems like I'd make what I'm worth in Atlanta
-Dating scene
I can't pinpoint what it is, but the dating scene is not too good here in Norfolk for a young professional, unless you're rolling in the dough, which I'm not lol. Everyone I talk to says the Atlanta dating market is a lot more forgiving for the young professionals.
-More for my field
I graduated with a degree in Broadcast Journalism, and work for a local news station. I'd like to branch out to something more in general TV, like with Turner, but I'm also considering using my degree toward something in HR or PR. With the several businesses in Atlanta, I could have a better chance of putting myself out there.
Now, I know the traffic and drivers might be an issue, but then again, if you've ever driven through Virginia, you can relate.

I've driven here for eight years, and have driven through New York (both NYC and Long Island). I think I'll be okay with that lol, but I know a lot of it is the increased transient population, which is a huge problem in Virginia as well. So honestly, if I can keep that in mind, I'll make it.