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Old 07-21-2012, 05:52 PM
 
Location: Oklahoma City, OK
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You can PM me if you'd like to discuss.

But I will say this...

Well, let me preface this by saying that what I'm about to say is un-PC, unpopular and will be viewed as offensive, but I feel like this needs to be said to black women who want to date interacially. What I'm going to say may or may not apply to you but need to be informed. If it doesn't apply to you don't take offense. If it does apply to you still don't take offense, but rather heed my advice so that you can make yourself competiteve in the interracial dating world.

Ok, so here it goes...

If you or any other black woman is considering dating IR, underster no circustance can you be obese or overweight. WHITE MEN DO NOT LIKE BIG WOMEN AND YOU WILL HAVE NO CHANCE IF YOU ARE OVERWEIGHT! Of course there are always exceptions, but for the most part, FAT DOES NOT FLY WITH WHITE MEN.

Ok, with that being out of the way, hit me up if you want to talk about it.
You know, I can see how many would be offended by this since I've been slammed for stereotyping on here. But in my case speaking as a white man, you are totally right. I don't feel bad about it because I want to be with someone who takes care of herself, since I do. BUT, there is a little bit of leeway in there. Nobody's perfect, so 10-20 pounds overweight isn't a deal breaker. I'm a sucker for a pretty face and a woman with a good personality. Weight can be lost and she and I can always work out together.
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Old 07-21-2012, 05:55 PM
 
Location: ATL
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Originally Posted by Atlanta_BD View Post
You can PM me if you'd like to discuss.

But I will say this...

Well, let me preface this by saying that what I'm about to say is un-PC, unpopular and will be viewed as offensive, but I feel like this needs to be said to black women who want to date interacially. What I'm going to say may or may not apply to you but need to be informed. If it doesn't apply to you don't take offense. If it does apply to you still don't take offense, but rather heed my advice so that you can make yourself competiteve in the interracial dating world.

Ok, so here it goes...

If you or any other black woman is considering dating IR, underster no circustance can you be obese or overweight. WHITE MEN DO NOT LIKE BIG WOMEN AND YOU WILL HAVE NO CHANCE IF YOU ARE OVERWEIGHT! Of course there are always exceptions, but for the most part, FAT DOES NOT FLY WITH WHITE MEN.

Ok, with that being out of the way, hit me up if you want to talk about it.
I will go a step further. Men with deep pockets do not date big women. I don't know of one millionaire that married a big woman unless she was the only girl that he has ever dated.
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Old 07-21-2012, 05:56 PM
 
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Tony is coming from a real old school baby boomer mindset. We don't live in the golden age they grew up in so his values aren't going to mach the younger generations.
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Old 07-21-2012, 05:59 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Atlanta_BD View Post
You can PM me if you'd like to discuss.

But I will say this...

Well, let me preface this by saying that what I'm about to say is un-PC, unpopular and will be viewed as offensive, but I feel like this needs to be said to black women who want to date interacially. What I'm going to say may or may not apply to you but need to be informed. If it doesn't apply to you don't take offense. If it does apply to you still don't take offense, but rather heed my advice so that you can make yourself competiteve in the interracial dating world.

Ok, so here it goes...

If you or any other black woman is considering dating IR, underster no circustance can you be obese or overweight. WHITE MEN DO NOT LIKE BIG WOMEN AND YOU WILL HAVE NO CHANCE IF YOU ARE OVERWEIGHT! Of course there are always exceptions, but for the most part, FAT DOES NOT FLY WITH WHITE MEN.

Ok, with that being out of the way, hit me up if you want to talk about it.

Let me preface this by saying that I am a petite athletic build. I am a black woman, a runner, a certified group fitness instructor and I lift weights. No fat here.... What you have stated is an opinion not a fact. There are a lot of fat married women of all races. Plenty of fat married white women, I live next to one that is twice the size of her white husband. Men like what they like. There are some chubby chasers out there.. Okay that was not PC but it is what it is.... Maybe they just don't like fat black women...
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Old 07-21-2012, 06:01 PM
 
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I will go a step further. Men with deep pockets do not date big women. I don't know of one millionaire that married a big woman unless she was the only girl that he has ever dated.

Now that may be a fact...
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Old 07-21-2012, 08:17 PM
 
Location: ATL
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If she has to work 5 days a week, you are not getting peach cobbler and collard greens daily....lol You must be okay with having a housewife..lol
This is why the marriage rate is so low. Im putting your name on my bank account and I can't even get a ham sammich and chitterlings daily? What's the benefit for me? I can cook and clean for myself without signing the marriage contract to give away half my ish if it doesn't work out.
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Old 07-21-2012, 08:24 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Atlanta_BD View Post
You can PM me if you'd like to discuss.

But I will say this...

Well, let me preface this by saying that what I'm about to say is un-PC, unpopular and will be viewed as offensive, but I feel like this needs to be said to black women who want to date interacially. What I'm going to say may or may not apply to you but need to be informed. If it doesn't apply to you don't take offense. If it does apply to you still don't take offense, but rather heed my advice so that you can make yourself competiteve in the interracial dating world.

Ok, so here it goes...

If you or any other black woman is considering dating IR, underster no circustance can you be obese or overweight. WHITE MEN DO NOT LIKE BIG WOMEN AND YOU WILL HAVE NO CHANCE IF YOU ARE OVERWEIGHT! Of course there are always exceptions, but for the most part, FAT DOES NOT FLY WITH WHITE MEN.

Ok, with that being out of the way, hit me up if you want to talk about it.

this is very stereotypical. all black women are not fat. i am not fat. you sound like a damn fool. no one will hit you up and talk because you're a ugly bitter black woman, who undoubtedly is old and withered by regrets. fly a kite 3itch!
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Old 07-21-2012, 08:57 PM
 
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LOL
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Old 07-21-2012, 08:59 PM
 
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This is why the marriage rate is so low. Im putting your name on my bank account and I can't even get a ham sammich and chitterlings daily? What's the benefit for me? I can cook and clean for myself without signing the marriage contract to give away half my ish if it doesn't work out.
LOL! I was just picking because the items you had originally stated are a little time consuming to be cooked daily. You wife should definitely keep you fed.
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Old 07-21-2012, 09:10 PM
 
Location: midtown mile area, Atlanta GA
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Reading this thread has been like slowing down to look at a wreck on I-85; you know it's going to be a mess, but you take a look anyway!
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