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Originally Posted by Natali26
I have lived here in a NW suburb of ATL for 15 years.
My Opinion:
1. Southern Hospitality: Fake. The sad truth about Southern Hospitality is that the natives here do tend to be very clique-ish, lots of fake smiles with backstabbing judgementalism disguised by "sugar." There is a definate "culture" here where people expend copious amounts of energy hiding/repressing displays of anger and strong emotion that could be frowned upon as "socially negative." As a woman who grow up in the northeast U.S., I find it very difficult to be accepted into Southern cliques of females because my culture encourages displayes of true emotion as being REAL. Very, Very Difficult to truly discover who the REAL person is here in the South because they are EXPERTS at maintaining well-mannered MASKS. They genuinely believe that these masks are demonstrations of good Christian values defined as manners. V. difficult to chip away at the perfect facade to really get to know them and care deepley about them as true friends. Unfortunately.
2. Social Life in ATL Suburbs: Church, Church, Church. You better believe the Bible and display no outward sins or you will spend A LOT of time alone. Family, Family, Family. You better have kids and heavily involved in soccer/football/cheerleading teams. Disconnection. It's hard to maintain friends because of extremely long commutes.
3. Exceptions: African-American people here are REAL with a rich culture and lots of genuine displays of sincere emotion. Many of the black people here are HIGHLY educated with great family values and class. Unfortunately, discrimmination is still rampant here in the South, so a lot of great black people are hesitant to quickly jump into friendships with whites.
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I'm sure you and Atlanta will be much better off if you get enough of the southern 'masks' and leave . It was lying liberals who destroyed it to begin with ,imo.
Northerners are complete fakes . Who watch their fellow citizens jump ,burn and be crushed in sky scrappers by radicals ,then walk by like nothing is going on when the radicals stand in the streets of downtown NYC in broad daylight and threaten to do it again . It was on vidio showing a few muslim men stomping our flag while displaying the jihad muslim flag , cursing America and screaming , 'allah ackbar like they did before they flew into the buildings ' and making threats . Like you yankees were invaded by the body snatchers or something. No emotions, no honor for their dead, just walking on by .
I don't like Atlanta because of what it has become, but it wasn't always that way . Blacks and whites were safer even in Jim Crow days than they are walking down the street there now . This idea of turning cities into ghettos is not what MLKs dream was about . It's the race hustlers ,immoral diviants ,hypocrits and liars who keep us seperate .
United we stand one language, culture and locked borders or divided we fall . We have all chosen to fall .