Moving to Atlanta Alone (Just got dumped) (Marietta, Buckhead: apartment, lease)

[kika_03]

Hello all

I'm moving to Atlanta next month, and like my title says, I just got dumped. I'm scared to move now because my boyfriend, who has lived in ATL before, has told me many horror stories, but I don't know if he was doing it to be mean or if it is true. I was going to back out, but I have already signed the lease on my apartment and I don't want to screw up my credit over this guy!
Basically, I'm wondering what to expect. I'm a single 27 y/o female, bi-racial (b&w), with a good job and a nice place to live. I have been to ATL a few times, but my impression was not that great. I'm worried about making friends. The girls I met seemed very hostile towards me and they guys...well you can imagine what the guys wanted from a "yellow bone". I'm not looking to hook up or start any new relationships, but I would like to find some friends! Are there places to hang out where I can meet nice people, male and female, without the hostility or the immediate invitation into bed?

[HUEY P]

It matters what your into and what type of people you would like to meet.

[Pcola110]

There are plenty of places to run into singles and not the hstile females trying to hang on too their men. Wine tasting, cooking classes, clubs (avoid the radio promotion parties), festivals through year, Piedmont Park, Live 5 Points, Midtown, Buckhead, and few others. Beside you're bound to find someone better down the road, I wouldn't even fright over him.

[Silkk01]

Atlanta and Georgia in general has it's ups and downs like everywhere. It is all about the group of people you decide to start hanging with. If you allign yourself with people that will get in trouble then you will have a drama filled life. However, you can meet plenty of people, go out have fun, and still be clear of the BS. For example, I grew up in Georgia (Marietta, suburb of Atlanta) and when I was a freshman in high school, I got into with some friends that were in gangs. I quickly joined and started that lifestyle for almost a year. I quickly decided that it was not me, so I started distance myself from that life. By the end of high school, I was on the varsity basketball and track team. It took me me until my junior year to make that transition, but I made it. Now I stay away from people that bring drama. I am now 28 and don't have any of it in my life.

What part of Atlanta are you moving too? I would like to welcome you to the ATL in the near future and let me know if you have any questions...Jason.

[queenbee3]

It depends on what type of interests you have. When I first moved here I met people at work but we didnt hang out much outside of work because they were into the club scene and I wasn't. There are groups online that you can join and meet people based on your interests or you can always try to meet people at work or in your neighborhood. Btw sorry to hear about you and your bf.

[atlantagreg30127]

Originally Posted by kika_03

I'm scared to move now because my boyfriend, who has lived in ATL before, has told me many horror stories, but I don't know if he was doing it to be mean or if it is true.

I have been to ATL a few times, but my impression was not that great. I'm worried about making friends.

Aside from the bigger questions, such as why you picked Atlanta when your BF told you so many bad stories, and your visits in the past gave you the impression it's not that great of a place (?).

There are meetup.com rooms aplenty online. That site has hundreds of Atlanta rooms for every interest and hobby you can think of (even singles). It's one place to start.

[Mattie]

Originally Posted by atlantagreg30127

Aside from the bigger questions, such as why you picked Atlanta when your BF told you so many bad stories, and your visits in the past gave you the impression it's not that great of a place (?).
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The Op stated she had already signed a lease. I am assuming she intended to move into an apartment with the ex-boyfriend, but now intends to honor the lease. Good luck, you'll make it!

[chip1980]

hope u have a job

[pgirl07]

Atlanta is like any other city. There are mean people and nice people and disgusting men. It's what you make it. You're 27 years old.....is this your first time moving out on your own? You'll meet friends at work and other places you go. There are still going to be people who give you evil looks and attitudes and try to jump in the bed with you whether you're "yellow" or green.

[love_child7]

Pcola110 has great suggestions. Simply put yourself in positive environments and the connections will happen. Dont forget church groups are cool for emotional support if you lack a local support system. Just remember that all humans are just that... HUMAN. As a human we will disappoint you at times and react negatively from time to time. Of course you know it takes time to form bonds, and some will be stronger than others. Get out there and surround yourself in goodness and good people will follow, not perfect, but good. Good Luck to you.