We are a family from Chicago that would love to get a somewhat major city (my husband sells online advertising) and get lower property taxes and milder climate. We are sick of paying $16000 a year for property taxes!!

We are looking for a nice house that is $400k
Our kids are 3.5 years and 19 months and it is important that they have great schools becasue with our taxes right now at least it gets them some of the best in the country...
We also are jewish although not very involved in our religion, we basically don't want our kids to be the only ones in the their class and are considered about anti-semitism in the south.
Safety is important as well... but i think most nice suburbs are pretty decent that way.
We do not have to move but would love to get out of here if we can find the right place. We would have picked Charlotte, NC but not really any jobs for hy husband out there if he loses his current one
Sorry if this post is long but we are scared of making a move that is not the right one. It seems like there are many more negative posts than postive ones about moving to Atlanta. Traffic sucks but we are from Chicago so not much better here....
THANKS!!!!