Hi there,
I found this post quite funny and somewhat insulting but I guess you can't expect to much when someone stays in one city/town for a year and decides to judge the whole of New Zealand on it. I will admit there are pro's and con's... I think if you know what you are after you need to see whether NZ is right for you... if its for partying then NZ does have clubs but nothing like London or LA... so in that case it wouldn't suit.
Yes we are quiet and slow compared to most places (population 4 million), there are only around 2 and half cities, the rest are large towns / small towns and farms... yes some houses have problems but only some and they are mostly out in the open now... some people compare New Zealand to England 60 years ago which is kinda funny.
I grew up in a small town and loved the environment... I moved to a larger town for high school (college?) to further my education.
New Zealand varies depending on where you live. Its like living in Texas and judging the whole of America on the experiences you have in Texas, its simply unjust to do that.
You need to find out facts then a number of peoples experiences, not just from the people that live in Auckland.
If you want a sunny place to live right next to the beach for children, research Mount Maunganui.... it gets packed after Christmas for New Years but otherwise its awesome. There are some retirement villages to because of the climate but as always theres good suburbs and bad. A lot of people either live on the outskirts towards Papamoa or accross the bridge in Tauranga if they can't afford the higher priced real estate closer to the Mount.
If instead you like snow and the winters then the south island maybe a better place. Theres a ski resort called Queenstown or a smallish city called Christchurch. Its a known fact that the further south you go the less islanders there are, most Maori are in Auckland or further up north. So there can be a different smaller level of culture found in the south island.
Since New Zealand its somewhat small its easy to go on holiddays to the scenic south island while you live in the north island.
And yes, prices are more expensive then America. Of course they are, in terms of scale you have to expect that a country that doesn't have huge manufactor's won't be able to supply lower prices.
Its the price you pay for being in a country hardly any one knows about... personally I love it and hate it..... I love being distant so we aren't involved in a lot of the worlds problems... but I do miss not having heaps of the toys available in America.
If you choose to live in Auckland the larger of the two main cities then I would advise to live either in Central Auckand suburbs (From Point Chevalier - Grey Lynn/Ponsonby (Villa houses), Mission Bay), or the North Shore suburbs... as the south suburbs can be.... well.... not as nice!
I'd love to clear some stuff up for you if you have any questions, I may not know the answers to all of them but can offer my advice on my somewhat limited experiences.
And yes, NZ'ers are reservered.... we mainly don't talk loud to the neighbouring table in a restaurant... and if we can we like to own a house with a nice backyard and bbq...
We have mySky (some HD) tv... some of its okay... e.g. (American programmes like The View, E! .... which are current, programmes like Hereos which at best can be a week behind, at worst a season!), Discovery, Living Channel, Movies, Sports, ESPN etc... some of its not that great... internet varies depending how close to the town/city centre... can be from 3 - 7 MB connection downstream... with higher speeds inner city.
Lastly, because this has turned into a huge novel, I just want to say to the person who said women don't really work BLAH!!
Ok so if your in an IT environment which looks after DNS services and web hosting, maybe there won't be as much women, but in other IT and non-IT area's we are there!
Jeez how sexist... I personally work for the largest telecommunications company as a web designer and I'm a women... we're not all stay at home moms, not that theres anything wrong with that.
Popular NZ sites:
Trademe.co.nz (like ebay, lists jobs, rentals, houses and stuff)
seek.co.nz (job site)
NZHerald.co.nz (main news site)
stuff.co.nz (another news site)
Cities:
Auckland
Wellington
Christchurch (ish)
Note: Most people not living in auckland can have a chip on their shoulder and talk down about it.... which for me is weird.