Hi!
We used to know a family who lived on the eastern part of Trussville - the man worked at the Honda plant. They moved to Ohio a few years ago.

I think he had a longer commute than you'd like, though.
We know people who live in Moody, and my children are involved in activities there with our homeschool group, so we're there a lot. Moody and the surrounding area is a growing area - there are several new subdivisions going in in that area and the area between Moody and Argo (although Argo would be a long commute as well). You would be closer to shopping areas in Trussville and Birmingham if you were in Moody, but it is further to Lincoln than from Pell City, for example - probably another 15 or 20 minutes on I-20, depending upon side of Pell City you're talking about. The Eden side is further away from Lincoln and closer to Moody and Leeds, and the Riverside side of Pell City is closer to Lincoln.
Moody doesn't have very many stores other than fast food restaurants; most people we know who live there or in Leeds go to Trussville to do their shopping.
Pell City has a fairly new Walmart and some fast food places, but they don't have a lot of other types of stores.
We also know people who live in the Oxford / Anniston area. They seem to be happy there. And there is a shopping center in Oxford, as someone else mentioned, although I don't think there are as many stores there as you'll find in Trussville or the Birmingham area.
If you're looking for things like J.C.Penneys, Old Navy, Gap, Parisians, Target, etc. - Trussville has that - it's been a while since I was in the Oxford Mall, but I know there's a Chick-Fil-A there.

I'm just not certain about the specific stores.
I don't really have specific information on the schools since we homeschool.
I hope the information I was able to give you is helpful!