Dating "in the meantime" is based on the belief that time is infinite. But in reality, "in the meantime" is wasted time, which means missed opportunities. Sure, you may be living in the moment, but it's a moment that has been dulled around the edges, stripped of importance and immediacy. When you're living in meantime mode, you're constantly letting yourself off the hook and embracing a reactive approach to life rather than a proactive one. "In the meantime" is the...