Originally Posted by TaoistDude

Sometimes, to get what you want you have to be willing to lose what you have. First, suggest couples' counseling. And he needs to get a real ED med such as Viagra or Cialis (you can get generics from a variety of online sources at huge discounts if cost is an issue). Then, if these don't work or he won't try, tell him that you're leaving him unless there is real progress (or maybe even fixed) in the next 3 months. Motivation based on fear of loss is very powerful, IF he cares enough to want