1. Yep, never hire friends or relatives. I'm "on the books" at our company but I'm ALSO on the board. There is nothing wrong w/ that at all as there are jobs I do so the owners wife is okay for being "on the books" as an employee.
2. ALWAYS sign your own checks AND do your own accounts payables and payroll. Our company is MUCH larger than your friends and there are only two people that can sign checks: my husband and myself. Once my husband forgot to sign one employees payroll check and the bank officer could not get ahold of him so she called me on my cell to verify it was okay. So banking at a LOCAL bank where you get to know your officer is also a great strategy.
3. NEVER use a CPA or Accountant that is related to ANYONE that also works for the company. We have our CPA do all of our books and ONLY discusses ANYTHING that has to do w/ financials with the two of us and NO ONE ELSE!
4. Don't pay cash to employees as their payroll!!! The business owner will come out of this MUCH better than the accountant and the employee. The IRS could nail her for self employment taxes too if he says she was "contract labor". Cash to reimburse them for other expenses as long as a receipt was turned in is totally different.
5. Pressing charges could be difficult. Why? Because she had ACCESS to it. No lie this is what we have been told when a former employee was stealing from us. The police said, "they had access to it so there is nothing we can do"


Since the items he stole were hazardous materials and should not be in a residential area and he had them in his garage I called the police AND the fire dept while we sat in the truck blocking their drive.

We got our stuff back after the authorities came out. He got fined and a ticket and lost his job.
6. Turn in the accountant for shady business practices for sure.
7. This should be NUMBER UNO...................... FIRE HER ON THE SPOT!!!!! You don't need to contact an attorney to fire someone for theft. He has proof and the records of such should be locked up under his control ASAP! Copies made and turned into an attorney to hold would also be wise. We had the cancelled check from an ex-business partner where he paid his "girlfriend" for "services". He was married.
8. Change the locks on the business.
9. Contact the BANK ASAP and have her removed from the account. Change the mailing address for the statements to be sent to. You can also have the bank have them customer pick up instead of mailing them out IF you work w/ a local bank.
10. Because of situations like this and having dealt w/ a previous business partner............ I don't go into business with ANYONE PERIOD!
11. IRS - the business owner can contact a good attorney that specializes in IRS issues and figure out a way to make amends. I'd do this right off the bat as well to make sure his hiney is covered and anything she or her accountant husband tries to pull is useless.
12. Friends are not always "friends" in the true since of the word. When money is involved one soon realizes who their TRUE friends are.