I'm a 37 yr old (feel 25, tho) single mom w/ 2 boys - 11 & 13. I've been going
to Clearlake (the town) since I was about 12. My gma's husband, after surviving Pearl
Harbor & the war, came home, bought 2 plots across the lake from & w/a view of Mt
Konocti. Its up a hill @ the end of the street, at the base of a Mtn. On the property are 4
buildings he built himself; the 'cabin' set way back from the road which he lived in while
building the 2 bdrm house (fireplace, huge bdrms, huge family ktch, picture window, big
frnt prch & screened-in back prch/extra bdrm), behind that is the work shed (cute)
w/lrg cncrt patio btween, and last is the det 2 car gar at the end of a long drvwy. All 4
bldngs match - all stucco painted the same color w/white trim, The cabin even has the
same frnt prch, ptched roof, & brick chimney. Even the shed & garage look like little
houses & all look like they could've been built last week - in style & preservation. It was
vacation home/fishing retreat until they finally made it home. My gma was diagnosed
w/dimentia, & he cared for her until his death, but she didnt want to leave so my mom
(who lives in Fremont, 2 hrs away) hired care, & went up every couple weeks also until
gma was too sick & has to go w/my mom until her death a few yrs ago. There are 6 kids
btwn them, plus spouses, kids, grandkids, & all wanted to sell (even tho' there was no
mrtge), except my mom. She now proudly owns all of it & still drives 2x a mo to care for
it.
In june the rental (in So Cal) we've shared w/my dad for 5 yrs was sold, &
not having $2500 to move, no other options, me & the kids were about 3 days from a
shelter (I had a decent job, car, good friends). i called my mom & she offered me the
Clearlake house free, as long as I needed or wanted, as our own home. It was just an
option - for about 30 min, for me to realize it was the only one & I had to take it, & make
the decision. We've moved A LOT, but never away, & i dreaded telling them. They were
awesome & said 'let's go for it' (after seeing the skate park online).
We've never really had or own place, either living w/people, or people w/us.
We not only have our own house (not apt), we have property in a resort area, 'guest
quarters' & 2 other buildings. We actually lose eachother (I 'escape'). I can smell the
water, the good lakey smell, & hear the boats from the house & can walk till my toes are
wet in 8 min.
The areas that are bad as a whole aren't bad in the way of other cities, tho.
And drugs are everywhere, meth is EVERYWHERE (been there, I know), & honestly have
yet to cross it's path here so far, even tho' i've not ventured much, if it was as bad as
rumored, I would have at least one story for you. the rumors about the crime are a bit
much, i think. There's mostly drunk in pub, drunk couple fights, & the occasional stolen
bike in the police blotter every day. And all crimes must be in daylight cause from 9pm to
6am its dead quiet - no cars, sirens, music, or voices. my kids make all the night noise I
ever hear.
The mobile home thing is a fact. I hopped on the bus (a little bored) just to
see parts i never would, & across the hwy is very different. Dirt raods, Not 'woodsy'
and all mobiles - every variation possible from brand new house-like, to corugated metal,
& not uniformly placed at all. they're every angle, north to south, east to west, & all
combos. willy-nilly, no rhyme or reason. My first thought was 'how ghetto & depressing'
but was soon smiling, & realizing Clearlake is its own world, & 'Quirky Quaint', & very
Mayberry, where 6 figure homes sit next to dilapidated fishing shacks & it looks normal
here & works. Theres a lot of new homes going up all over, but only 1 -4 in a spot so its
not bad, & funding from Santa Rosa to rebuild & improve Lakeshore Dr. A lot of the
lakesite cottages/resorts have been fixed up 7 now house tourists instead of the riff
raff that lived in them.
The Best Thing thats happened? My oldest son had a friend from the skate
park over the other day, & instead of straight to his room & online he was leading him
allover. When i asked 'what's up?' he said (tears) 'nothin, just showin my friend where i
live' He's never showed anything but the computer & trampoline. He's proud of where we
live, & what we have, & they're happy.
I know it's not for everyone, but if you're around again, look differently, see
it's charm, drive around new areas.
If anyone's interested, i did the scenic drive & have photos that might
surprise you, or would like to see my home we're all so proud of, email me at
indy.pooh.1@gmail.com, & will get them to you. If anyone's still reading, Thank you, &
God Bless