Is California one of the states with a high number of young childfree girls? (Malibu: home)

[wclac]

Ok, first off, I don't want kids, and I lived pretty anti-social. Does Southern California have a high percentage of girls who is sure that they don't want kids? If so, it would give me an opportunity to meet some girls my age and start a relationship.

[timelesschild]

Um, LAFan, you seem like a sincere young man, but your posts about your raging hormones don't seem to be getting you anywhere. How about getting involved in community activities, softball, dance clubs, etc., and meeting folks your own age, letting things take their natural course... that is usually how people meet each other. If you treat the young ladies with respect and you have some mutual interests (other than the one interest you keep posting about), you should do well.

[notmeofficer]

L.A. is a tough place for relationships... fast girls... fast times.. lots of peer pressure for the perfect life... sure you can keep up... do you have the money, resources, background,education to woo one of them?.. Because there will be plenty of Ken Dolls who can

Women are the same all over... but in some places they are more attached to reality.. and L.A. living isnt reality...

(Reality check here....Look outside your front door.. the person you are looking for is right there.... and NOTHING in the world matches a great personality and a good honest generous gregarious holistic healthy person.. a real women would be attracted to that over Ken Doll any day.. and if she wasn't don't waste your time)

Now.. if you want sex.. women with hot bods...everyone is an actress dont ya know... beachy bimbos... hispanic war brides... gold diggers... and occasionally a good woman who actually has her head on straight (a rare commodity in L.A.).. L.A. can offer you all that

Women without kids.. yep there are those too...plenty of them... it isnt the bible belt or some southern state where you can marry at 14.... are you ready to support one? because a zillion guys out here are...

better visit and see.... bring your checkbook,, and a ferrari.. or some other exotic car.. really exotic.. because everyone out here can own one... oh yes,, and that home in the hills... you know.. Malibu or something ... small.. 5000 feet or so..

so endth the lesson.. not sure if it was what you wanted to hear

edit.. you know.. I realize now after a little thought that I am replying to a juvenile.. so.. some friendly advice.. want to meet someone real.. nice.. someone who wont wear out your head and heart.. try NORMAL social activities.. YMCA... church... boy scouts.. teen center in the community you live... (long beach isnt it).. theres plenty of support out there to help you establish healthy relationships with the opposite sex... and they will ALL come to you in time.. but most importantly.. work on yourself .. be a great person.. volunteer in your community.. help an old person... take a class to learn about interpersonal relationships.. women will FIND you attractive if you do these things

[wclac]

Originally Posted by notmeofficer

L.A. is a tough place for relationships... fast girls... fast times.. lots of peer pressure for the perfect life... sure you can keep up... do you have the money, resources, background,education to woo one of them?.. Because there will be plenty of Ken Dolls who can

Women are the same all over... but in some places they are more attached to reality.. and L.A. living isnt reality...

(Reality check here....Look outside your front door.. the person you are looking for is right there.... and NOTHING in the world matches a great personality and a good honest generous gregarious holistic healthy person.. a real women would be attracted to that over Ken Doll any day.. and if she wasn't don't waste your time)

Now.. if you want sex.. women with hot bods...everyone is an actress dont ya know... beachy bimbos... hispanic war brides... gold diggers... and occasionally a good woman who actually has her head on straight (a rare commodity in L.A.).. L.A. can offer you all that

Women without kids.. yep there are those too...plenty of them... it isnt the bible belt or some southern state where you can marry at 14.... are you ready to support one? because a zillion guys out here are...

better visit and see.... bring your checkbook,, and a ferrari.. or some other exotic car.. really exotic.. because everyone out here can own one... oh yes,, and that home in the hills... you know.. Malibu or something ... small.. 5000 feet or so..

so endth the lesson.. not sure if it was what you wanted to hear

edit.. you know.. I realize now after a little thought that I am replying to a juvenile.. so.. some friendly advice.. want to meet someone real.. nice.. someone who wont wear out your head and heart.. try NORMAL social activities.. YMCA... church... boy scouts.. teen center in the community you live... (long beach isnt it).. theres plenty of support out there to help you establish healthy relationships with the opposite sex... and they will ALL come to you in time.. but most importantly.. work on yourself .. be a great person.. volunteer in your community.. help an old person... take a class to learn about interpersonal relationships.. women will FIND you attractive if you do these things

That's why I don't like LB that much. LB is big, but not that big. And since LA is bigger, where can I go to learn more.