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I'm not sure if you're still reading this post...but I'll put my two-cents in! I come from an old California family and feel like I've had a relative in every region! If money is not a problem then what would help guide your decision-making is determining what type of environment you enjoy (that is, hot, cold, rainy ok, foggy ok, dry/desert, mountains, (sub)urban Redwood forests, ocean, etc.), the interests you and your family have (that is, sports, clubs, hobbies, etc.) and what you mean by economic diversity - sadly those at the bottom often live in areas with crime issues, as you must know, and rural areas throughout the US are dealing with serious meth-issues. San Diego Area: Traffic has grown worse than LA! Posters who recommend the Encinitas area, I hope I spelled that correctly, should first explain that the larger San Diego area has expanded without much planning or control. My mom lived in Carlsbad, which still retains a tiny bit of it's old beach town glory, but is surrounded by development. Great schools, little diversity but super-condensed tract neighborhoods. Encinitas is a less-wealthy, not as close to the beach, version. There was a time where all the little beach towns were distinct but they have grown together for the most part - although Leucadia is still a typical surf-town - and as someone who grew-up in a small surf town I can assure you that it's all-about surfing, so if your kids aren't beach goers it might not be as welcoming as they move into their teenage years. That basically goes for the string of surf towns along the coast. Keep in mind that the San Diego area is mostly desert and the environment is dry and lacking in green. The inland area, which is where Temecula is located, is desert, and as others have stated, overgrown. Note as you drive from LAX to San Diego the lack of urban planning - it's a lot of strip malls, bed, bath and beyond, target, etc. It's terribly sad. The Ontario region is also desert and has meth problems, however, the airport is convenient.
LA: Keep in mind that LA has it's distinct areas. One poster recommended Torrance, which is an interesting option. The traffic would drive me crazy but I've heard that it has a nice feel to it. My sister lives in neighboring Redondo Beach and loves it. Much more diversity. Santa Monica is nice too - the schools have kids from less-affluent neighborhoods attending and it's redevelopment seems good for walking. I think some of the "funkier" areas are kind of neat: for example, Topanga Canyon is a real community in and of itself - check out it's website. It's an easy drive to the beach and has lots of lovely canyons to hike in.
Santa Barbara region: I lived in Santa Barbara for a long time and it has changed a lot in the last decade. Serious money has made it nearly impossible for "regular" folks and so you have condensed wealth juxtaposed with the extreme poverty of the Latino workers. The environment is IMHO is the most perfect in the state: beautiful mountains and miles of ocean. Gardens everywhere and easy to get around. Never too hot and never too cold. It has a university - one of the most important thing I think to keep a community from getting too narrow-minded (although the university is in neighboring Goleta). Other posters recommended San Luis Obispo, again, another amazingly beautiful places. It too has gotten very pricey, lots of designer stores etc. but still has the best farmer's market! The downside is that it's a hassle to fly out of.
Monterey Bay Region: Many recommended Carmel/Pacific Grove. My grandfather lived here and my uncle still does. Beautiful surroundings - more green and woody as you leave the desert south. Lovely sea-side village but much older population. Also it's somewhat chilly temperature-wise. Carmel Valley is warmer but hyper-wealthy and not walkable. Airport is a big hassle. Big Sir is beautiful, super-lush Redwood forest [currently on -fire ):] and very eclectic group but not easily reached by airport.
Santa Cruz Region: Santa Cruz itself does have some of the elements you require: a walkable downtown, nice neighborhoods, economic diversity etc. It also has a university and a nice beach. The downside is that is has a large population of lost hippies living on the streets, and some gang problems. Capitola Beach, just to the south, is a small surf town that Santa Cruz has grown into. That said, the beach itself feels like the beaches of my youth. It's worth reading-up on what surf culture is all-about so that you understand the influences, both positive and negative, before you move your children there.
San Jose Area: I really don't like this area - very big sprawl. Some nice but very wealthy areas, like Los Gatos. However, I have relatives living in the Santa Cruz mountains with a Los Gatos zipcode and love it: the best of both worlds. Your kids go to excellent schools but you live in a little mountain hamlet. Beautiful forests, easy drive to the beaches at Santa Cruz and easy drive to airports of SF and SJ. They love the community feel as well. Weather: warm/hot summers, rainy winters. Lots of green. EastBay Region: You may want to investigate Berkeley - it's all about diversity although I've met more than a few people who "love" the diversity but have their kids in prep schools. It's a tough call as the public schools aren't that great. The high school has a good reputation but it's not accurate, and it's a big, crowded, urban school and easy to get lost in. On the other side is the Lamorinda Area, where I'll admit to living. Excellent schools, beautiful hills, forests, etc. but no diversity, which often leads us to looking elsewhere to live and questioning how healthy it is for us to raise our kids here - you're right to think about this. I never thought it would be so crazy until my kids got older and now it's too expensive to move!
Northbay: I'll admit to not having spent much time here. It's beautiful with more rain as you move north.
Redding Area: Redding has drug-issues and since you are so far away from anything it can seem worse. The weather is either cold or very hot. No university. Pluses are that you have amazing forests and park-lands.
You may want to check-out Chico - it's been featured in a few magazines lately and has had a lot of thought put into its growth. It's very cute, nice downtown, has a university, economically diverse, bikable, beautiful green parks, etc. Negative: hot in summer and the nearest airport is Sacramento. Ditto Davis: very easy to get around, great farmer's market, shops, restaurants, diverse, ecofriendly, big university, surrounded by farmland (like Chico) but a quick twenty-minute drive to Sacramento airport (I went to grad. school here) and easy drive to the mountains too. Downtown area is ideal, shady-tree lined streets, walk everywhere, etc. Suburbs are boring. Cons: hot, dusty summers.
I'm sure I've missed more than a few but I'm brain-dead and will log-off! Best of luck!
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