I lived in Astoria, Oregon, which is in the northern Oregon coast area. I was there for one year and this was back in 2000...so the rent is probably higher now...but I was paying $550 for a cute one-bedroom duplex that overlooked the Columbia river. I had moved there from Portland because I dreamed of coast living and wanted to try it.
This place was such a blessing to me because I was in a transitional time in my life and I wanted to "find myself". The Oregon coast is a wonderful place to nurture personal growth and if you are ready to turn within and do some soul-searching, this is the right place for it. It doesn't nurture getting out in the world socially, for some reason. It is so strange because everyone I met there felt the same way in regards to this. It is a gentle, quiet, subdued energy that is great when you need that. When you are ready for more action and aliveness, you can head to Portland, just a quick drive away..so keep that in mind as well!
Don't let all the stuff about darkness and rain get you down too much, although I have met people who just cannot handle it. If you are prepared for it and have an escape plan each winter (to a sunny place for at least a week!)...you'll be fine. Nov, Dec, and Jan can be brutal on the coast. Rain and darkness can drive you crazy...but the sunny days are so incredibly beautiful and pleasant that most people put up with the wet! I ended up investing in a good therapy light (used for seasonal affective disorder, which I never had..but wanted to avoid!) and that helped, I believe. Mold can be a problem if you are prone to allergies...and I got sick a lot (little colds) when I was there....so I had to be on top of that. Extra vitamin C is good!
I was a single mom with a young child living alone and I felt totally safe and happy there. I spent a lot of time walking around town and loved it...when it was sunny, that is! I actually got to a point where I didn't mind the rain and finally gave up my umbrella. No point!
Keep in mind that each coastal town in Oregon is totally different..so you'll have a lot of places to choose from.
Astoria attracts a lot of young families, artists, and..well..."interesting folks!". It is gorgeous and is often referred to as "little San Francisco" due to all the Victorian homes scattered throughout the hills. I met a lot of anti-television people whose reason for not having it was because they didn't trust the government, etc. I think I was the only person on my street with cable. People there definately have a "live and let live" outlook...but it can get to a point where it is to the extreme in that they take little interest in their neighbors at all. I made a few friends there, but ended up feeling isolated and ended up going back to Portland. It isn't the ideal place for a single person looking for a partner. A very interesting place, for sure..but has the highest rainfall, I believe, in Oregon. Any place that makes Portland seem dry and sunny must be pretty wet!
About an hour south of Astoria is Cannon Beach. It is beautiful..although it is often full of tourists..but not too terrible. I spent a lot of time in Cannon beach while living in Astoria and considered moving there. It was a better match for me: More alive and youthful than Astoria. A lot of artists make their home there and it is a very liberal town. You don't see a lot of teenagers or college students spending time there because it tends to be a more pricey and more geared towards quiet dinners and coffee. More 30s/40s crowd spend time there.
Seaside is next as you head south from Astoria. Very different than Cannon beach. Cheaper and not as beautiful, in my opinion. Much diffferent crowd with lots of children, teens, and families who are looking for more affordable, chain hotels, restaurants while on vacation. Nice long, wide beach, but very windy, usually. Boardwalk along beach is nice for walking and biking. Very busy little downtown in summer with tons of touristy stuff, like arcades and fast food. Fun place, but I would never live there.
I haven't spent much time any further south than seaside, but there are several nice towns with lots of character...and each very unique.
Good luck to you on your search!!! Any questions, let me know!!
