Am I crazy? (Stanford, Bishop, Columbia: homes, transferring to, high school)

[lionelmorales]

Hi I'm a high school senior from Phoenix, AZ and I'm involved in the application process at the hyper-selective and tiny all-male Deep Springs College. The college only grants an AA, charges no tuiton, and provides a student faculty ratio of 1:5, seeing as in there are only 30 students and 6 professors, so it is definetly a very unique institution. Also, the college is located 1 hour away from Bishop, the nearest source of human civilization, and is a work college, meaning that students are assigned tasks aroung the college, which doubles as a ranch, ranging from slaughtering cattle to irrigating and harvesting alfalfa fields.
Now I know that up until this point it may sound kind of crazy to put myself through this for 2 years, but there are some huge positives too. First and foremost, 50% of its graduates transfer to Yale, Columbia, Chicago, Dartmouth, Brown, and Stanford, with the other half transferring to various prestigious public universities and liberal arts colleges. Also, I sort of like the idea of spending 2 years doing some hard physical, cowboy work and just experiencing a different way of life, I live in the most suburban town on the planet, and just building a stronger work ethic.
However, I've never really done hard work before, the hardest it's ever been for me has been mowing the lawn or washing my dog. Has anyone on this site every worked on a ranch or farm, and if so how hard is it? Do you feel enriched by the work? How's rural college life? Is it too boring or does the intense sense of community make it worth it? Remember it will only be for 2 years but I don't want to screw up what are supposed to be some of the best years of my life, but if I could come out much, much stronger than before I'd definetly be willing to do it.
Thanks

[Idunn]

Only if you'll love it. Deep Springs College appears to be an excellent institution that anyone would be fortunate to be accepted into. But surely not for everyone. I'd bet they are serious about, "lives of service to humanity." Are you?

As for the ranching aspect of this, yes, it is hard work. Hard physical work that will give you a new appreciation of what you are really capable, and also what physical exhaustion is. It is much more demanding than you likely appreciate. But if you are so inclined and the work is not bogus (as in a make work program, which I doubt) then it can be very rewarding. If you have doubts about this (and you can never be entirely prepared) you might volunteer on some nearby ranch or farm for several days. Get your hands on the earth, and dirty.

I also wouldn't overlook that you will be leading a rural existence, which for anyone used to city life is something of an adjustment. To put it mildly. Nearby Bishop, CA may begin to seem like the big city to you, but it is still a small provincial town in a remote area. Nothing like Phoenix, AZ. But rural life also has its attractions, and you might even like the relative peace and quiet. Also, as an all boys school, have you considered just how important girls are to you, and just how often or easily you might conceivably see them?

It seems one would graduate 2 years hence with an excellent foundation from which to proceed. But if your only interest is what can be derived, you'd probably have an easier time of it elsewhere. In other words, this will only work if you belong there. Not everyone will. Take to heart their creed and what they stand for and if in your heart you deeply agree then you should do well, and all the hard work more than worth it.

Be honest with yourself.

[lionelmorales]

I wish I knew what I really wanted. The thought of spending 2 years living as a cowboy is romantic, and I have done some work on a farm, albeit nowhere near the amount of work I will be doing, and it wasn't too bad. Again I really fancy the idea becoming a vaquero, but I just want to know what life will be like. Honestly I don't think that I'll miss the city at all, and it'll only be for 2 years so it won't be that bad. I guess what I'm just worried about is the work, which is both what draws me most to the school and what pulls me away too. Weird I know but I'm only 17 and this would be so new to me.

[CA central coast]

If you get accepted, I'd say you're crazy if you don't go. That is a once in a lifetime opportunity. I can see a very strong networking base being established for you as result of being one of the few students to attend Deep Springs.

[DMenscha]

I was a city boy until I started work for the California Division of Forestry when I was 19. I went from 6'1" 125 pounds to 180 pounds in 6 months. I found out that what doesn't kill you makes you stronger and that a whole bunch of things I thought would kill me weren't that hard. I was also a real smart as* (I guess I still am ) and learned how to work as a team member too.

I've drawn on that experience my whole life and would highly recommend it to you as well. Throw in an education on top and you've got a winning combination.

Good Luck!

[JustJulia]

I agree that if you are accepted, you should do it. I can understand why the work is daunting, but they'll know you're a city slicker and I'm sure you'll get used to it quickly if you have the right attitude. Young men and women enter military basic training every day and they survive. You'll be fine.

I spent a semester in England as an exchange student when I was in college, and it was one of the best experiences of my life. Yes, I was homesick and had some struggles, but I went from living at home to being a pretty independent person. It was GREAT.

What an exciting opportunity for you! Yes, there will be downsides, such as loneliness, a demanding schedule, a lack of girls (assuming you're hetero), and maybe some hazing. But as the "CA Central Coast" poster pointed out, this is a wonderful chance to build an excellent network, like being in a good fraternity. Look into any bad stories, but with such a tiny group and so many teachers, I bet there aren't many.

I lived in suburbs all my life, and I love to get away from the crowds and cars and buildings to see real trees, lakes and animals. Clear skies. QUIET. I just get tired of the noise, and sometimes I wish I lived on a farm and lived a quieter life. The work wouldn't scare me ... I come from a family of farmers.

I think you should go.