19 yr old unsure about moving? (home, rated, job)

[Kimchi2]

So im 19 years old, and the problem is im really unhappy. I was born in Canada with all my family, but at the age of 5 my parents seperated and my father moved to california. I DONT KNOW WHY, but I chose to move with him ( my parents made me choose at such a young age!! )

I have no family out here just my step mothers ( whom i dont care for or like much ). I grew up in cali since i was 6 but went back to canada 3 or 4 times a year to visit mom and brothers & sisters, as im getting older i feel like i dont have much family here, just a boyfriend a couple of friends and a job. I want to move...back to Canada but its just hard and kind of scary I love it out there but i dont want to leave my boyfriend behind and i have such a great job right now...Im not really close to my family in cali and not really ever home so i just feel kind of alone

I need advice!

[Kimchi2]

So im 19 years old, and the problem is im really unhappy. I was born in Canada with all my family, but at the age of 5 my parents seperated and my father moved to california. I DONT KNOW WHY, but I chose to move with him ( my parents made me choose at such a young age!! )

I have no family out here just my step mothers ( whom i dont care for or like much ). I grew up in cali since i was 6 but went back to canada 3 or 4 times a year to visit mom and brothers & sisters, as im getting older i feel like i dont have much family here, just a boyfriend a couple of friends and a job. I want to move...back to Canada but its just hard and kind of scary I love it out there but i dont want to leave my boyfriend behind and i have such a great job right now...Im not really close to my family in cali and not really ever home so i just feel kind of alone

I need advice!

[City Boy]

You're only 19. You should move to where you're happy.

[jojo410]

I also moved at 19 back to Cali because that is where I grew up and that is what I liked but unfortunately I too only have an aunt here and a couple friends and a boyfriend. I am 28 with a son now and trust me I still feel lonely. I think although you like it here it is better to go back home with who you feel comfortable and you will soon adapt. if you like Cali as much as I do just visit.

[tikitwo8765]

maybe spend a few weeks in canada to get a real feel and then you may know which way you want to go