Hello All,
I've read a few threads and yall seem to know your stuff...

So help me out!
I want to move away. I was born in Vietnam, raised in CT, went to school in CT. I want a change. I "need" a change, or so I think I do.
From the back of my mind, I am thinking North Carolina, Georgia, California and Texas. Why? I don't know and that's why I am here for help.
North Carolina - never been there. No nothing about NC.
Georgia - been to Atlanta and one or two nearby cities. Love it? Urm.... not really. It seems similar to CT (minus the Mexican population, here in CT, we have Hispanics).
California - Been to SF, San Diego and mostly Orange County (Santa Ana). I would like to try San Diego out. I wouldn't mind being in Santa either. I've applied to UCLA (but the chance is slim).
Texas - lived in Houston for 1 month and visited San Antonio. Haven't looked at any schools down there.
I've been around my family my whole life. Yes, I was home-sick when I left for college (but who wasn't)... then I got used to being independent... and now... although I am greatfulllll for what my sister gives me, I do not need a second mom (and I say this out of full respect for her).
I have a full-time job now. If I decided to move, I should first look for a job "there" so I can have something to move to, right? Even if I get accepted to a school before I move there, it is more promising then just leave everything here and move.



For those who've been through what I am trying to find out or know someone who has went through it... please tell me what you think.
P.S. My grandpa, being protective as he is, said I should try graduate school here and then move.... but I, I am ready to go. Am I too stubborn??