I was hoping to get an overview of the Lake Tahoe area, although based on what I have read, Truckee may be the right fit.
QUICK BACKGROUND: I have spent the past 2 winter season (6 months) in Colorado (Crested Butte & Denver), and am ready to make a real move from Michigan. Colorado is a great and diverse state, (considering Durango or Edwards/Vail), but it is missing good boating water -- okay, so I want it all!

Is boating a big thing on Tahoe, as in lake cruising, cocktailing & lounging in the sun during the weekend?
As a 38 y/o single professional male, I am looking to find that nice balance of enough social activity and where I can meet some quality people (especially the right gal). Any advice is appreciated.
Thanks for your time!