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Originally Posted by catdad7x
Yep, you made the right call on that one. He may have had a legitimate reason to avoid cats (maybe), but he gave you an ultimatum concerning something very important to you. Forcing you to make a choice like that doesn't bode well for any future relationship. Marriage/relationships are a team effort, not a dictatorship. His loss, your gain.  |
Totally. What I didn't mention is that both exes were abusive to the cats in one form or another (not to mention to me). Right now as I look to the man on my right (who is playing on our laptop right now), I am the luckiest woman in the world. He treats me like the goddess that I am
(yes, I am VERY spoiled) & he treats our cats with love. He's a good guy. I think I'll keep him.
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