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Kobe's ex wife just awarded 75 mill, AND the three mansions, one of which her free loading mother is staying in. If I had money like that I would NEVER get married, its just not worth it.
Kobe's ex wife just awarded 75 mill, AND the three mansions, one of which her free loading mother is staying in. If I had money like that I would NEVER get married, its just not worth it.
Look - I'm a huge Lakers fan - born and raised in outside Los Angeles - but I don't understand why so many people on here are so hung up on his marriage and divorce like it has anything to do with marriage and divorce in general. He got married at 21 - which, to me - is a huge no no. Also - everyone here acts like he's some stand up guy that was a great father and husband and got screwed out of the blue by some crazy gold digger. Seriously? The guy had more affairs than I'm sure we know about - and to be perfectly honest - he probably should have done some jail time. He obviously wasn't ready to get married and he very obviously didn't take his marriage vows seriously. Did she? Who knows? Did she marry him for the money he was probably going to make? Very likely. Did he marry her because she was hot? That's likely, too.
Instead of people saying - look what happened to Kobe - I'm not getting married! Maybe people should be saying - Look how Kobe screwed up his marriage - I'm not going to do that.
Kobe's ex wife just awarded 75 mill, AND the three mansions, one of which her free loading mother is staying in. If I had money like that I would NEVER get married, its just not worth it.
As long as you don't cheat on your wife for 10 years, then you'll be fine. Kobe was a fool in many ways.
Look - I'm a huge Lakers fan - born and raised in outside Los Angeles - but I don't understand why so many people on here are so hung up on his marriage and divorce like it has anything to do with marriage and divorce in general. He got married at 21 - which, to me - is a huge no no. Also - everyone here acts like he's some stand up guy that was a great father and husband and got screwed out of the blue by some crazy gold digger. Seriously? The guy had more affairs than I'm sure we know about - and to be perfectly honest - he probably should have done some jail time. He obviously wasn't ready to get married and he very obviously didn't take his marriage vows seriously. Did she? Who knows? Did she marry him for the money he was probably going to make? Very likely. Did he marry her because she was hot? That's likely, too.
Instead of people saying - look what happened to Kobe - I'm not getting married! Maybe people should be saying - Look how Kobe screwed up his marriage - I'm not going to do that.
Based on what facts? I doesn't matter why the marriage ended, the fact is he is getting screwed! She didn't do ANYTHING to earn that money. How many hours a day was she practicing in the gym. How many things in life did she give up to dedicate her life to basketball, how many injuries did she incur because of basketball.
Thats exactly what I'm saying. If I was a advisor to a man with money I would discourage them from marrying. Its a lose ,lose situation. If your anywhere from poor to middle class, then find get married. It might help you. But if your wealthy(unless she gave birht to your kids) you're making a mistake.
Look - I'm a huge Lakers fan - born and raised in outside Los Angeles - but I don't understand why so many people on here are so hung up on his marriage and divorce like it has anything to do with marriage and divorce in general. He got married at 21 - which, to me - is a huge no no.
You speak the truth. He just should have never gotten married. He was neither ready nor inclined. And lots of older players and ex-players - his own dad included - warned him.
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Also - everyone here acts like he's some stand up guy that was a great father and husband and got screwed out of the blue by some crazy gold digger.
Well, Vanessa is a crazy gold digger. But you're right.
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Seriously? The guy had more affairs than I'm sure we know about - and to be perfectly honest - he probably should have done some jail time. He obviously wasn't ready to get married and he very obviously didn't take his marriage vows seriously. Did she? Who knows? Did she marry him for the money he was probably going to make? Very likely. Did he marry her because she was hot? That's likely, too.
All true, except the jail thing. Neither you nor I know what really happened that night in Colorado.
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Instead of people saying - look what happened to Kobe - I'm not getting married! Maybe people should be saying - Look how Kobe screwed up his marriage - I'm not going to do that.
More like - look how Kobe screwed up his life by getting married in the first place and expecting to still go out and be a ho. Once a ho, always a ho. He married a gold digger with a bad personality, but he's a ho with a bad personality. He shouldn't have gotten married. Not to Vanessa, not to anyone else.
Based on what facts? I doesn't matter why the marriage ended, the fact is he is getting screwed! She didn't do ANYTHING to earn that money. How many hours a day was she practicing in the gym. How many things in life did she give up to dedicate her life to basketball, how many injuries did she incur because of basketball.
Thats exactly what I'm saying. If I was a advisor to a man with money I would discourage them from marrying. Its a lose ,lose situation. If your anywhere from poor to middle class, then find get married. It might help you. But if your wealthy(unless she gave birht to your kids) you're making a mistake.
I still think it's funny that this is what you have taken from this situation. He CHEATED ON HER! MANY, MANY TIMES! Like I said - this isn't some stand up guy. And in all probability, he raped someone years ago and got away with it. And like I said - I'm a Lakers fan!
Based on what facts? I doesn't matter why the marriage ended, the fact is he is getting screwed! She didn't do ANYTHING to earn that money. How many hours a day was she practicing in the gym. How many things in life did she give up to dedicate her life to basketball, how many injuries did she incur because of basketball.
Thats exactly what I'm saying. If I was a advisor to a man with money I would discourage them from marrying. Its a lose ,lose situation. If your anywhere from poor to middle class, then find get married. It might help you. But if your wealthy(unless she gave birht to your kids) you're making a mistake.
Fact is she got three mansions that will require ALOT of residual upkeep each year with property taxes, landscaping, maintenance, etc... She is supporting her mother in a mansion as well and all those bills.
She is accustomed to a free spending lifestyle and has no future viable source of income beyond being Kobe's ex...
I predict Bankruptcy within 5-10years ala Heather Mills (look her up, she got 50mil, ended up broke and 25mil in debt)
Also in a no fault state, she could leave for any reason and get a similar type divorce deal. Cheating or not...
I think it's ridiculous amount of money for a woman who sits on her ass does absolutely nothing for a living. At the same time, I think that divorces should all be no fault divorces that end 50/50. It clears up the court systems and makes rich people think twice about getting married.
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