Your cool asking about hotels. This area has alot of newcomers so they stayed at hotels while checking out the area for a place to live.
I know what you mean by paying for amenities. It crazy but the higher the hotel star rating the more amenities you have to pay for instead of being free.
I think Uptown would be a good location or South Park area would be a good location to be near the city center and less commute times from one area to another.
For free pool Uptown check out the Hampton Inn
Hotel - Charlotte - Uptown, North Carolina - NC - Hampton Inn Hotels
Here is a list of things to do for the fourth I think you might find a even ground for everyone in your family .
Carowinds is cool but I think you can get more out of this city and explore other things plus it will be crowded that weekend making your experience less enjoyable. If you move here wait til then.
2008 Summer Pops at Symphony Park A summer staple since the early '90s, the music series has devoted past performances to Broadway, Father's Day, and Fourth of July numbers
South End Gallery Crawl For the most unique gallery crawl experience in an historic district join us in SouthEnd!
2nd Annual 4th of July Family Bike Parade Live music, games, crafts for bike decorating, snacks and beverages provided. Local fire department will lead the parade
Fourth of July Celebration Friday, July 4 6:30 p.m. – 10:00 p.m. A fun filled evening will begin with a small town parade at 5:30pm from Davidson Town Hall and ending at McEver Field. At McEver Field, festivities will include a children's amusement area, stage entertainment, concessions and the most spectacular fireworks show in the Lake Norman area
Red Rocks, Whitewater, & Bluegrass Celebration 46' rock spire, class III/IV whitewater and some great music. This will be fun for the whole family with lots of food, activities for kids, and of course... FIREWORKS!
Red, White and Boom
Enjoy a variety of activities from Crayon Moon Bounce, Tug of War and Sac Races to Dual Slide and Clown.
Stay and watch fireworks at 9:30pm.
Slick Rick reclaims his fame
Weathering Program: Red, White and Blue in Raptors too! resident red, white and blue raptors! Have an opportunity to get your picture taken with an eagle!Free with regular admission.
Charlotte Pop Fest Charlotte Pop Fest is a 2-day "power pop" music festival and Beatles tribute
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Freedom Park and Latta Park are the best parks for running on paved surfaces
Latta Plantation
Freedom Park in Charlotte, NC
Enjoy your visit