My daughter does well with kids just a couple years younger as well. I think its the social maturity aspect of it. She is starting to get that talk back little attitude now though... eeek... nipping in bud.... LOL She and my 13 yo son seem to get along how they are supposed to.. always arguing, but when bedtime comes, the arguments end, and the hugs and I luv u's come out...

glad for that. Someone else here on the board shared some info w me, I don't have it handy, but if you go back, there is a ladys name who was very helpful to me. Union County. Best of luck to you and your family!!