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10-26-2009, 06:47 PM
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If the guy knows its over and hes got to know its over he needs to man up and move on. What is he planning to do hang around and cry for affection that isnt going to happin? When a woman says its over ITS OVER
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10-26-2009, 07:05 PM
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Originally Posted by Nativechief
If the guy knows its over and hes got to know its over he needs to man up and move on. What is he planning to do hang around and cry for affection that isnt going to happin? When a woman says its over ITS OVER
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There's a line in one of my favorite songs: "Ain't nothing going on but the rent." |
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10-26-2009, 07:45 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Nativechief
If the guy knows its over and hes got to know its over he needs to man up and move on. What is he planning to do hang around and cry for affection that isnt going to happin? When a woman says its over ITS OVER
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It's more than just emotion. The guy most likely has a financial investment in the apartment. And, where will he go without notice? There are legal ramifications to agreeing to live with someone and take their money to maintain a dwelling. Regardless of how she feels about him, she owes him an opportunity to make other arrangements and possibly part of the security deposit and other bills that he may have paid. |
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10-26-2009, 10:51 PM
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I agree with the last post. It takes some cash to move out and he shouldnt be put in a bind. Maybe 30 days would be fair. But he doesnt need to spend them beggin and cryin and cussin and stuff.Both should show some maturity.
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10-27-2009, 08:18 AM
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If I were OP I would think twice or get some legal aid advice about some of the suggestions posted here. Remember you're getting free advise and it might come back to bite you later.
There MIGHT be issues like:
1) constructive eviction
2) him claiming there are missing things
3) him being able to show he paid a portion of the rent or security
4) him showing some flaws in your lease
5) and on and on. . ."desperate people do desperate things."
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10-30-2009, 02:59 PM
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My sister in law won't leave after we asked her to. She moved in because she was taking care of our son and was there everyday anyway. She is not on our lease and we didn't create one for her. She stopped taking care of our son without notice and caused us to take off work to get him into childcare. She is jumping from her mother's house to ours and it is annoying. Since there is no lease agreement with her, can we file for a 3 day eviction?
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11-02-2009, 09:44 AM
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Originally Posted by onaroll1999
I have a lease with an apartment complex and my boyfriend lives with me, but is not on it. I want to break up with him and he said if we split, I have to go thru the "eviction" process. I am not in a position to waste money on filing for it if it won't work. Any ideas how I can get him out of my apartment? My lease isn't up until March--but I don't want to wait til then-- I want him out now! Thanks for any help!
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If he's not on the lease, there is no eviction process. You can call the cops and have him removed. However, if he paid some rent for the coming month (I'm guessing not) somebody will need to agree to leave for that time. After that, he's out.
As others have mentioned, if he's being reasonable it's only fair to give him time to find another place (not time to drag his heels and try to change your mind). |
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11-16-2009, 09:43 AM
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Need them out right away
I had a verbal month to month lease with this person, she moved out and her daughter moved in with my permission. The mother continued to pay the rent for 10 months and recently told me the daughter would be responsible for the rent. The daughter has not paid any rent for three months. I just want her out so I can get the property ready to sell. What is the correct action to take?
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