In the Naperville are you are not going to get more space for sure ! Not for a home under $ 200,000 and I truly doubt you will be able to buy a home for that price, maybe a condo. In that area the homes are pretty expensive, there is no comparison with the north suburbs. That's for sure. I spent many years in Lake County (north suburbs) and I know. The homes are much cheaper here. In Naperville you pay for the name and other things like that. Is like when you shop at Bloomington or JC Penny.
I guess you have to decide if you want to be close to your husband's work or half way between his work and your family
