I am 23, have 2 year old twins and looking to buy first starter home. Would like to live in one of the South Suburbs (I know most of you guys think South Burbs are rather ****ty and crime infested

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I work for the railroad in Homewood and have small children so would like for job and home to be conveinently located together. (Mom also lives in South Holland, so something not too far from her... I like Matteson so maybe in that area?
I have a VA loan (I am a veteran) that I plan to use.
Some other issues are I just got a bankruptcy discharged, so any imput about how that will effect things and how soon I should try to get the house will be appreciated. I will be debt free except for truck note (which has a co- signer on it)
Between my income and child support I gross a little under 45K a year.
How would you go about this...
Or at this time is renting a better route for me to go? Does it seem like I can even afford a house?
I am looking for a starter home, so I know it wont be the best...but any ideas?
I have champagne taste and wine head money!

I really like modern and up to date looking property.
Really want 3 bedroom (I have one boy and 1 girl) 2 bath- 1.5 will do too...Also a garage....and finished basement, (if thats not pushing it)
Also, based on this info...If any of you think I am in a position to buy a house now what do you think my price range needs to be?
Thanks for your advice and input
*OnMyOwn*