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Old 07-22-2010, 01:26 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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A man is going to lust after a women regardless of what she wears.
An "Amen" also from the not always appropriately dressed Dewdrop!
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Old 07-22-2010, 03:06 AM
 
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This is a dilly of a weird thread. Iv'e always believed that people who are always bringing this stuff up is because, for some reason , its on their mind.

The mind, shall I think this, or....shall I think that..?
Oh , what a choice God has flopped on my mind for today.

My choice is not to worry, its easy though as I'm one of the ones thats always getting looked and gawked at. It doesn't bother me, a perfect face with blonde hair and ocean blue eyes, mostly I get stares
that are dizzy stares . Are the girls and women having bad thoughts...I never even considered it.

I just figure that they look because of curiosity and social self understanding.
So maybe were a little hard on people in all this guilty without a trial thread
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Old 07-27-2010, 12:20 AM
 
Location: West Coast USA
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I am in my 60s. Over the last three years, I lost a lot of weight and had to buy clothes that fit differently, because the old stuff was literally falling off me. I was stunned at the attention I got from men, sometimes men who were very young (to me, anyway). It was ridiculous -- this grandma to 11!

At first, it was flattering, then it wasn't -- it was embarrassing. Now, I think twice before I walk out of the house, and most of the time, I minimalize my makeup.

Good night. I won't even wear those calf-length pants. I cover myself from neck to ankle. No cleaveage -- either place. I believe I have a responsibility to be modest in every way: clothing, deportment, etc.

But you men have a responsibility to stop blaming women for your failure to think and act appropriately, whether you are with a modestly-dressed woman of one who is not. And don't blame it on your hormones . . . hormones, schmormones. Either the L-rd is present and working in your life or He isn't.
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