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Old 10-13-2015, 07:03 AM
 
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We discuss LGBTQ sex here. What about Christian hetero sex?

Are there rules other than fornication and adultery?

The Duggars believe women should be available 24/7 for their husbands even in late term pregnancy. I disagree.

Any thoughts?
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Old 10-13-2015, 07:32 AM
 
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Let love be your guide.

If you love your wife, when she is not feeling well, give her a break. In fact - serve her and make her feel special. That will probably help out long term with the sexual relationship.

1 Peter 3 suggests living with our wives in an understanding way.
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Old 10-13-2015, 07:34 AM
 
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It's only for making babies. And it's shameful.
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Old 10-13-2015, 07:46 AM
 
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Let love be your guide.

If you love your wife, when she is not feeling well, give her a break. In fact - serve her and make her feel special. That will probably help out long term with the sexual relationship.

1 Peter 3 suggests living with our wives in an understanding way.
Marriage is supposed to be a 50/50 proposition. Maybe she feels great and just doesn't want to.

That is mighty big of you to give your wife a break when she is not feeling well.
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Old 10-13-2015, 07:53 AM
 
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Let love be your guide.

If you love your wife, when she is not feeling well, give her a break. In fact - serve her and make her feel special. That will probably help out long term with the sexual relationship.

1 Peter 3 suggests living with our wives in an understanding way.
A break from sex? What is your interpretation of an "understanding way"?
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Old 10-13-2015, 07:53 AM
 
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I meant give her a break sexually - back off the demand for sex. Some guys can be very demanding.

Some of you make up scenarios in your own minds...

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A break from sex? What is your interpretation of an "understanding way"?
See the underlined above.
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Old 10-13-2015, 07:57 AM
 
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Be available 24/7 is usually believed by those who try to use submission as almost like slavery, but the only rules should be in mutual agreement with each other.
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Old 10-13-2015, 07:57 AM
 
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I meant give her a break sexually - back off the demand for sex. Some guys can be very demanding.

Some of you make up scenarios in your own minds...



See the underlined above.
How often does one manly man DEMAND sex?

IF, and should it not be, CONSENSUAL, why would one"give" a break? Key word for all evangelicals here is CONSENSUAL..



consensual sex

Sex in which consent was given by both parties. Sex with mutual consent.
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Old 10-13-2015, 07:57 AM
 
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There are 3-4 women on the corner of 8 Mile and Woodward that are available 24/7.

Seriously, are husbands also to be available 24/7 for their wives? What say you men?
Duggars?


I have no understanding of the rules for women that were adopted in Christianity. Women cannot cut their hair, wear make-up, or jewelry. Women must not preach. Must take their lead from men.

It is unfamiliar and quite astonishing.
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Old 10-13-2015, 07:58 AM
 
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Duggars?


I have no understanding of the rules for women that were adopted in Christianity. Women cannot cut their hair, wear make-up, or jewelry. Women must not preach. Must take their lead from men.

It is unfamiliar and quite astonishing.
It is misogynistic and controlling is what it is..
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