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Old 05-01-2016, 06:01 PM
 
Location: Ohio
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So this is a sexual submissive contract where you submit to a man who expects you to wear cheap shoes.

What do you get out of this?
Theres no contract, unless you count our marriage license. I dont need TOMS to feel special. Im fine with Dollar Tree sandals. They all get dirty just the same.

Its not about getting something out of it. My marriage isnt a McDonalds Drive Thru where i can just go through and order something when i feel like it or complain when its not how i want.
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Old 05-01-2016, 06:02 PM
 
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No i do not consent and I am allowed to say no to something we have previously discussed as a boundary/limit/rule.
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You have discussed not having sex with his friends.
answered above.
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Old 05-01-2016, 06:08 PM
 
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Theres no contract, unless you count our marriage license. I dont need TOMS to feel special. Im fine with Dollar Tree sandals. They all get dirty just the same.

Its not about getting something out of it. My marriage isnt a McDonalds Drive Thru where i can just go through and order something when i feel like it or complain when its not how i want.
Dollar Tree? You are a submissive in a dirt poor relationship. Mazel. You have discussed not having sex with his friends as a boundary issue.

I would agree with never eating McDonalds. Nasty stuff. Are you punished with bible scripture?
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Old 05-01-2016, 06:10 PM
 
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You have discussed not having sex with his friends as a boundary issue.
Yes, we have agreed we are monogamous and do not have an open marriage- thats NOT a bad thing.
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Old 05-01-2016, 06:12 PM
 
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Yes, we have agreed we are monogamous and do not have an open marriage- thats NOT a bad thing.
But, he could still expect you to have sex with his friend if he told you to. He is the dominant. He could change his mind about monogamy at any time.
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Old 05-01-2016, 06:14 PM
 
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But, he could still expect you to have sex with his friend if he told you to. He is the dominant. He could change his mind about monogamy at any time.
Hes not going to change his mind.
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Old 05-01-2016, 06:16 PM
 
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Hes not going to change his mind.
He can punish you at will. He can change his mind. Does he use scripture to justify punishment?
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Old 05-01-2016, 06:18 PM
 
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He can punish you at will. He can change his mind. Does he use scripture to justify punishment?
He will not change his mind on a closed marriage. He does not use the bible for that. I am his wife and will do as he asks. If i do not, then i will be punished according to him.
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Old 05-01-2016, 06:24 PM
 
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He will not change his mind on a closed marriage. He does not use the bible for that. I am his wife and will do as he asks. If i do not, then i will be punished according to him.
Little Mikey Seever would be proud. So, when the man, making you wear cheap shoes, asks you to entertain his friends, I am sure you will act accordingly.
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Old 05-01-2016, 06:26 PM
 
Location: Ohio
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Little Mikey Seever would be proud. So, when the man, making you wear cheap shoes, asks you to entertain his friends, I am sure you will act accordingly.
I like that you keep taking a shot at my clothes as if this is highschool.
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