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Old 03-16-2008, 07:54 AM
 
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My wife took my son and left .I was called into the ministry a year ago and recently I had fallen victim to Satans lies because I wasStupid Young and week in my Faith I had started drinking and cursing and looking at porn and she was doing it with me I am SOO sorry .She never told me how she felt and now Satan has driven a wedge in between us and I cant bare to be without my family. I know it is not gods will for any marriage to seperate so I need all the prayers I can get . I have repented and have gotten back where i am supposed to be Please pray .Even ask your chuches to pray for us PLEASE!!!!????Our names are Sean , Kristie , and Aaron Wiles
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Old 03-16-2008, 09:35 AM
 
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What a heartbraking story Sean. I will definately pray for you and your family. I hope everything works out as God wills in your life. God Bless!
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Old 03-16-2008, 10:29 AM
 
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My wife took my son and left .I was called into the ministry a year ago and recently I had fallen victim to Satans lies because I wasStupid Young and week in my Faith I had started drinking and cursing and looking at porn and she was doing it with me I am SOO sorry .She never told me how she felt and now Satan has driven a wedge in between us and I cant bare to be without my family. I know it is not gods will for any marriage to seperate so I need all the prayers I can get . I have repented and have gotten back where i am supposed to be Please pray .Even ask your chuches to pray for us PLEASE!!!!????Our names are Sean , Kristie , and Aaron Wiles
Hi Sean,
Welcome to the forum, Wish it was under better circumstances.

I'm pretty sure you're not the first guy to have that happen to him,
but it's always a sad thing when it does.

You've already taken the first steps in confessing and repenting...

Right now God may be using this time to impress a lesson on you.
(Believe me, you will be tempted many times over and He knows that.)
(Hebrews 12:6 - 13)

If you've been in the ministry for a year,
you certainly don't need any lectures from
the likes of me...

I will pray earnestly for you and your family.
I truly hope things work out for you all.
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Old 03-16-2008, 02:55 PM
 
Location: Ruidoso NM
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Ditto you are in my prayers too
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Old 03-16-2008, 05:56 PM
 
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Great advice ComputerGuy.
It's hard to know exactly what your going through Sean, I would like to suggest that you get your self some help. This will give you the strength to handle the issues at hand and will show your wife that mistakes can be fixed and this is about fixing the marriage and bringing your family back together.

May God hold you and your family close and help you through the darkest of hours. Best of Luck & God Bless you and your family!!
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Old 03-16-2008, 10:19 PM
 
Location: In Sticky San Antonio TX
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If your church has a larger organizational body (a headquarter's type umbrella association - not uncommon with many branches of Protestantism), try to locate a therapist through them. You and you're wife can use some marital therapy with a professional. There's more options for her than submitting or running, and you can have your wheels trued at the same time. This ain't the end of the road.
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Old 03-17-2008, 01:26 AM
 
Location: Seward, Alaska
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Sean, I have just whispered a quiet prayer for you and your family. God knows we all need help from time to time, and prayer from the church body can be so incredibly powerful.
Ok...so you messed up. We all have. (been there, done that) But now you've came back to God and are forgiven. Start each morning with prayer and thanksgiving, and you will be amazed how the rest of your day goes.
DON'T accept the devil's lies about your marriage failing. It won't, as long as you are willing to obey and serve God. Tell your wife how you are sorry for your actions, how it may have hurt her, and how you feel now. If she won't talk to you, then write a letter explaining all that, then have a trustworthy friend of hers deliver it.
There are a LOT of people on this forum who really CARE about others. (such as you!) People who are called into ministry so often face the worst temptations and difficulties. (because, quite naturally, the enemy wants to stop them) If God didn't think you could handle it, He wouldn't have called you...
Please keep us posted when the ANSWERS to all the prayers start coming in...it will encourage the rest of us.
DON'T give up!

Bud
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Old 03-17-2008, 11:36 AM
 
Location: All around the world.....
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My wife took my son and left .I was called into the ministry a year ago and recently I had fallen victim to Satans lies because I wasStupid Young and week in my Faith I had started drinking and cursing and looking at porn and she was doing it with me I am SOO sorry .She never told me how she felt and now Satan has driven a wedge in between us and I cant bare to be without my family. I know it is not gods will for any marriage to seperate so I need all the prayers I can get . I have repented and have gotten back where i am supposed to be Please pray .Even ask your chuches to pray for us PLEASE!!!!????Our names are Sean , Kristie , and Aaron Wiles
Will do Sean:
Stop beating up on yourself though, God is a restorer, and this He will restore
since you've taken the steps like Computer Guy said to come back to the Father; everything else will line up with the will of the Father in due time.
God Bless You
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Old 03-20-2008, 06:06 PM
 
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Everyone please be much in Prayer about Saturday . I am going to go see her and Aaron with the stipulation thatwe cannot talk a bout US. I just pray dear Jesus that I would have the words and actions that day that God would want me to have . I pray that God would just take control of the situation that day and not to let my emotions get in the way.
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Old 03-20-2008, 06:11 PM
 
Location: Boca Raton, FL
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Smile We are praying for you....

Just enjoy Saturday the day He made and rest in it. You have people praying for you.
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