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Old 02-01-2012, 06:18 PM
 
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End result: Self imposed Segregation, makes it acceptable.
I don't think it's self imposed. It's more or less economically based...
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Old 02-01-2012, 09:32 PM
 
Location: OKIE-Ville
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But not in Beverly Hills? The only time Ive had any issues was in a bar in Vegas that was almost all BM/WF couples with a sprinkling of singles. Being the only white guy with a black date I got one rude comment and a stare down from one of the guys there. Funny thing was, he had a white date. Wasn't anything major though. I'm sure if I was in another city it could have been rougher.
More power to ya, Big Dog.

I'm an old man now, but back in the day I dated some lovely ladies that were African American. I enjoyed 'em very much in every way. I think they enjoyed me quite a bit too.
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Old 07-05-2012, 09:55 AM
 
Location: In the basket with the other deplorables
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Personally, San Diego is very interracially friendly.
I gotta disagree. I lived in San Diego for over 10 years. I'm in a BF/WM relationship. When my boyfriend and I met (he's from Denver), we noticed all the stares, gasps, and looks of disgust on my people's faces,(from mainly WW), when we'd go out in public together. Eventually, when we wanted to go out, we'd go up to Los Angeles where people have better things to do with their time. This is the main reason why we left San Diego - to live our lives in peace. The last straw for me was when my boyfriend and my then 10 year old daughter went to the store together. My daughter came home in tears because a lady in the store was staring at her and said the "N-lover" slur loud enough so she could hear it (my boyfriend is partially deaf, so he did not hear it).

Denver and Las Vegas are great places for IR couples - also Seattle and MPLS. I would NEVER recommend San Diego to anyone. It is racially diverse, but very segregated and people seem to rely on stereotypes, rather than getting to know someone individually. I could give you many examples and I could go on for days about that place...I felt like I spent most of my 10 years there dispelling myths and stereotypes rather than actually living my life! I hope to never step foot on their soil again.

I know many people who are in IR that live in San Diego, but how they are received and treated by the masses there? That is another story.

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Old 07-19-2012, 04:16 PM
 
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I am a black woman and NYC is the worst for interracial relationships , Black people in particular will taunt and make rude comments. And, because I am "pretty" they become more agitated. I lived moved to Miami , way better down there for interracial couples although I was called out there a few times too This is so sad, that people are still wasting energy on being racist!
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Old 07-19-2012, 04:33 PM
 
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New York and Las Vegas. based on my experiences
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Old 07-19-2012, 05:22 PM
 
Location: West Paris
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Minneapolis seems a good city for IR.it seems also an exception in Midwest.Why ?
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Old 07-20-2012, 06:16 PM
 
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I know that is a minority but which city has most BW/WM ?


Thanks.Phil
NOLA could be the most interesting racial melting pot/salad bowl I've seen.
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Old 07-20-2012, 06:50 PM
 
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NOLA is the interracial city
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Old 07-21-2012, 05:05 AM
 
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Who cares
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Old 07-21-2012, 08:35 PM
 
Location: Brooklyn, NY $$$
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funny thing is 99 percent of the time when i see a black women with a white male in new york city its mainly a couple that is rich or successful.

im a black male raised in a white neighborhood and my sister grew up loving white boys and had a italian boyfriend so i have seen this myself through family alone.

i actually started liking white women before liking black women only because i was raised around whites and thats what i was used to.

but now i love all girls i see no color at all just as long as your pretty with a booty im all for it.
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