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Old 06-30-2011, 08:15 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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Where would you rather live?
Why?

Which would you recommend for a 23 year old licensed massage therapist?
A 23 year old single lesbian?
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Old 06-30-2011, 09:18 PM
 
Location: Savannah GA
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Is the single lesbian a massage therapist?
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Old 06-30-2011, 10:09 PM
 
Location: West Cobb County, GA (Atlanta metro)
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If you would like the topic to remain open you're going to need to give a lot more information. What budget range? What type of climate do you prefer? Area recreational options preferred? Need public transit? etc etc etc etc
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Old 06-30-2011, 10:14 PM
 
Location: Philadephia!
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I say go to france -.-
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Old 06-30-2011, 10:57 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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I am aware of all budget, climate, transportation, recreational, and other considerations of each of these cities. In my mind, the three are tied due to each aspect and beyond. I have spent quite a bit of time in each place - exploring, meeting people, etc.
I am having trouble making the definitive choice and would like to hear why others would choose one over the other.

My income is largely from technical writing and ghostwriting, and I can do that from anywhere. I am a LMT, and I do that to supplement my writing work. I can be financially stable in either place without continuing as a massage therapist, but I would like to do more massage work than writing work when I move. Someday I would like to open up my own practice or spa, and stop writing for money altogether. I like creative writing more, but it's hard to do when I spend most of my time doing other writing.

I am drawn to Asheville because of the mountains, definitive four seasons (though winter is way more mild than what I'm used to in Chicago, which is perfect), large holistic health community that would be good for massage business, and large amounts of tourists that could also be good for business. Right now, I am leaning more towards Asheville but that could change tomorrow!

I like Charleston because of the beauty of the city, the ocean, the warmer winters, and the restaurants. I have talked to LMTs there and they say it is a good market due to the wealth of many residents and tourism. I have been warned away from Charleston by my South Carolina family due to the "snobs" that live there. This is also why I haven't visited nearly as much as I have Asheville and Savannah (my family doesn't like to go!)

I have always loved Savannah. I have been visiting my entire life and never doubted that I would like to live there at some point. I am drawn to it because of the beauty, the art, and the proximity to the ocean. I love that it reminds me so much of European cities and I can get lost in that feeling while I'm there. I am not as certain about the market for massage therapy there, and would like to learn more.


Urban Luxury - I have been to France a few times and would love to go back. I have distant family in Lyon and even more in Quebec. I am 100% French and I speak it fluently, so yes, if it were an option I would go.
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Old 06-30-2011, 11:25 PM
 
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I'm also a massage therapist- I think you've got a calling to be in Savannah. Nothin' wrong with spending a year in each place, kind of getting a feel for what you're looking for, then making your long term plans. Good luck
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Old 07-01-2011, 06:16 AM
 
Location: metro ATL
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Seems like Asheville is more your speed.

But as far as "snobs" in Charleston go, that's mainly the upper crust locals but there are tons of transplants moving to the area every year, so if you decide to explore the city further, don't let that stop you.
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Old 07-01-2011, 09:49 AM
 
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What about Saratoga Springs. Close enough for trips to Montreal, is close to the Adirondacks and lakes, has good nightlife, is nicknamed the "Spa City" and more. Compared to other Upstate cities/areas, they don't get as much snow either. I know Albany's Lark Street is known as a gayborhood and is the closest known gayborhood in the area.

Another place that might work is Plattsburgh. It is across Lake Champlain from Burlington VT, is an hour south of Montreal, in recent years it elected an openly gay mayor, is also close to the Adirondacks and has a 4 year college that helps to bring culture to the city. It also has opened a new arts center too. That area has a strong French vibe due to being close to Quebec.

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Old 07-01-2011, 12:09 PM
 
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Asheville.
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Old 07-01-2011, 01:17 PM
 
Location: Crown Town
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Seems like Asheville is more your speed.
^^^^This

Here's a recent story about Asheville too the OP might like Asheville's a hotbed for same-sex couples | The Asheville Citizen-Times | citizen-times.com
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